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Introversion is definitely horrible for your chances at love, I don't think there is any denying that. That doesn't make it impossible, however. Same with the kind heart. Yes, many women might give lip service to wanting the nice guy, but often the nice guy is a form of settling. Are nice guys with kind hearts typically powerful leaders, strong protectors, great providers?
Be who you are. The right person may come along, or she may not. Learn to live for and love yourself, for that is what will sustain you no matter who comes and goes.
I am very introverted, although thankfully not kind hearted. I get some despite my loathsome lack of "social skills" because I'm tall and somewhat good looking. This fact has not improved my outlook on the world.
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Originally Posted by iknowftbll
This is pretty week. I'm not an introvert but I have (for the most part) a kind heart. I've never had a problem with not being attracted to me for that reason. If you believe this you're seeing the wrong kind of women. Or maybe you're not seeing women. Save for the ones in the centerfold. That is until the pages get stuck together.
Sigh. The female default to shaming is one of the human race's wearisome constants. If you every get in an argument with one, it's because you're a virgin, or are poorly endowed, or something. I get it. Thanks.
Sigh. The female default to shaming is one of the human races wearisome constants. If you every get in an argument with one, it's because you're a virgin, or are poorly endowed, or something. I get it. Thanks.
Even worse is assuming things about people just because they don't agree with you.
The most repellant personality traits in a man to women are introversion and a kind heart. I suppose I'll never be quiet learned enough to see why these qualities warrant apology.
That is the most asinine, self serving crap I have ever heard.
My husband is a kind hearted introvert. My husband, the man I married. The man I almost cheated on, who I confessed to, and who still loves and trusts me despite my failings. He is no."alpha" male, infact people on this and another message board dared to call him a cuckold and a pushover because he forgave me and is so stinking kind hearted. A real kind hearted man, a forgiving loving man, doesn't care what society thinks he should or shouldn't act like. He doesn't use labels like alpha or beta male, he doesn't care if a certain woman or type of woman likes him, and he stays true to himself without regard to cultural expectations.
Get out with your self pity and develop a personality that doesn't blsme others, and you will attract someone. And when you do, appreciate that someone for who they are and not who you think they should be.
Average size of the American male, ah, member is 4". Anything above that is bonus
Not only was I not aware of this, but I now can't help but wonder how they determined this. Did they take a sample (a demographic cross section of the male pop, for example) and get them to agree to drop their shorts and someone came by with a ruler? Did they provide visual aides to, uh, ensure accurate measurements?
How exactly are these conclusions reached?
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