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Old 03-16-2022, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Flawduh
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Internet access from jail?

But she has to be somewhere and like a typical young person, with a smartphone and internet access 24/7 including this website. Especially now that this story is being talked about in various forums.
Not gonna lie... Your post below was very questionable:

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It could be and that is what it seem. She said she was disgusted, but some women say a lot of things and mean the complete opposite. Like saying they want pizza and gets mad at you because she wanted tacos instead. Poor guys have to be mind readers at times. lol

I mean... What???

Perhaps she recorded it to show evidence to law enforcement?
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Old 03-16-2022, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Somewhere on the Moon.
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I mean... What???

Perhaps she recorded it to show evidence to law enforcement?
The law enforcement she was very clear in saying she didn’t call? If it was up to her that guy would had never been arrested.

Lets not forget that every Starbucks has security cameras.

Plus, is anyone going to believe she was the only woman there or the only person with a smartphone? In fact, the video shows two young women that truly were disgusted with the scene to the point they simply walked away, not staring at it and recording it in their smartphones.

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Old 03-17-2022, 03:21 AM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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The law enforcement she was very clear in saying she didn’t call? If it was up to her that guy would had never been arrested.

Lets not forget that every Starbucks has security cameras.

Plus, is anyone going to believe she was the only woman there or the only person with a smartphone? In fact, the video shows two young women that truly were disgusted with the scene to the point they simply walked away, not staring at it and recording it in their smartphones.
You have no idea why she recorded it, your implications are disturbing and the fact that you even went there is bizarre. What kind of person thinks like that?
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Old 03-17-2022, 06:30 AM
 
Location: Somewhere on the Moon.
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You have no idea why she recorded it…
Enlighten all of us by letting everyone know who does.

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…your implications are disturbing and the fact that you even went there is bizarre. What kind of person thinks like that?
I do. Have a problem with it? Answer: Don't read it!

To reiterate what I said, her reaction is very suspect given everything that has been said. She wasn't the only person there, yet apparently she was the only one that recorded it with her phone and didn't once called the cops. Weird if she was "disgusted" by the scene.

In a way it's like getting catcalled. Oh sure, if she don't like how the guy looks he will be seen as creep and/or considered to be sexual harrasing. If she likes what she see, somehow the same situation is "cute" and could lead further with her giving her actual number to the guy or a host of other things. This is a widely held belief and it didn't appeared from thin air. The only difference is if she likes the guy or not.

If a woman feels threatened or is disgusted at witnessing an illegal act from a guy she doesn't like and has the means to call law enforcement asap, what is stopping her? Of course, this is assuming she doesn't likes the guy. Now, what if she does even if she says she doesn't? Actions always speak louder than words.

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Old 03-17-2022, 06:59 AM
 
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Enlighten all of us by letting everyone know who does.

I do. Have a problem with it? Answer: Don't read it!

To reiterate what I said, her reaction is very suspect given everything that has been said. She wasn't the only person there, yet apparently she was the only one that recorded it with her phone and didn't once called the cops. Weird if she was "disgusted" by the scene.

In a way it's like getting catcalled. Oh sure, if she don't like how the guy looks he will be seen as creep and/or considered to be sexual harrasing. If she likes what she see, somehow the same situation is "cute" and could lead further with her giving her actual number to the guy or a host of other things. This is a widely held belief and it didn't appeared from thin air. The only difference is if she likes the guy or not.

If a woman feels threatened or is disgusted at witnessing an illegal act from a guy she doesn't like and has the means to call law enforcement asap, what is stopping her? Of course, this is assuming she doesn't likes the guy. Now, what if she does even if she says she doesn't? Actions always speak louder than words.
Wow Blake. I really hope you get some help while you are in jail. Then you can come back and read what you wrote and realize how much wrong is in what you posted.
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Old 03-17-2022, 07:19 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Lets not forget that every Starbucks has security cameras.



Seriously. It is just so dangerous for women to willfully choose to engage with sexual deviants and male predators in public. It's dangerous for anyone, but if there were any men in that Starbucks that day, they should be ashamed of themselves for sitting on their punk-asses while this whole thing went on for 10 minutes.
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Old 03-17-2022, 07:35 AM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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Enlighten all of us by letting everyone know who does. I didn't claim to have the answer you did. I said you don't as none of us do, do you dispute that?


I do. Have a problem with it? Answer: Don't read it! Pot calling the kettle black, you don't have to read my response either, see how that works?
Feel free to come up with whatever disturbing scenarios you want, expect people to call you out on it though.
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Old 03-17-2022, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Boston
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they used to have smoking sections in restaurants ......
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Old 03-17-2022, 08:10 AM
 
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Seriously. It is just so dangerous for women to willfully choose to engage with sexual deviants and male predators in public. It's dangerous for anyone, but if there were any men in that Starbucks that day, they should be ashamed of themselves for sitting on their punk-asses while this whole thing went on for 10 minutes.

I can't imagine me not saying something, to call the cops and to tell the guy to stop it and he's going to fkn jail. There must be something in human nature that keeps people from getting involved because you see so many stories where a crowd stands around and watches something happen. Like you'll see a story of a guy raping a woman in a park or beating up someone on a train while dozens stand there and do nothing.
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Old 03-17-2022, 08:56 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I can't imagine me not saying something, to call the cops and to tell the guy to stop it and he's going to fkn jail. There must be something in human nature that keeps people from getting involved because you see so many stories where a crowd stands around and watches something happen. Like you'll see a story of a guy raping a woman in a park or beating up someone on a train while dozens stand there and do nothing.

You are so right, and it's a terrifying reality. As a community, we are supposed to help take care of each other. There have been instances in the past where I've been forced to step into action myself. Men are supposed to be our protectors.


I don't know what kind of guys hang out in Starbucks, definitely not ones I wanna be around when it hits the fan.
Too soft for me. (that's what she said)
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