Gee.
In the middle of lockdown, I lost my non essential hotel job as travel stopped.
I found an essential job opening, aggressively went after it and got it not knowing what the pay even was...and was delighted it was a whole 40% more than I was making.
Sure gas has gone from$2/g to nearly$3/g..has nothing to do with Biden..it's lockdown caused low demand, we just had cheaper "winter blend" (at least here in the great white north tundra), and now there's way more cars on the road and the more expensive summer blend is coming online. Happens cyclically every winter/summer.
Utilities have stayed about the same. I was air conditioned last summer, and warm and toasty this last winter.
Food costs..well they went up before the pandemic and went up after. No change there.
No kids, definitely no babies, no need for adult diapers (at least not yet!)..so no change there.
NW increased due to reduction of debt...can't complain about that.
SSDI COLA went up, but so did my supplemental..no surprise, happens every year.
Dec '19, bought a 2019 Minivan...have saved a LOT in maintenance/repairs over my last piecof crap Kia Minivan. I'll be er buy a Kia or hyundai again..no wonder they go cheap used.
Did home maintenance last year, it would have been spent anyway.
Taxes we t up a whole $10/yr. But I bought an existing starter home in '15, so I'll not complain.
No kids means no child support.. anywhere.. anytime..to anyone. I'd say 4 kids is about 2 to many..but what can I say? I never had an URGENT need to procreate...and took steps to be sure that didn't waiver.
I have been considering adoption..there's too many kids "in the system" who would love to have a permanent home..and a parent or two to love them.
But that, again, isn't a URGENT need.
I shop smart, have been divesting crap I/we accumulated on CL, and while I bought a few well placed pieces of furniture, it was cheap. Just picked up a self propelled lawn mower for $125. New ones go fir $300 minimum, so saved a lot buyingoff CL. It's a well cared for Troy Bilt, and the only reason I bought it was I really need self-propelled. I'll get $75 for my old push mower, so I'm only out $50 for the self propelled, saving about $250 off a new one.
The money I'll spend on the increase in supplemental will be far cheaper seeing I have two major surgeries this summer lined up. Well worth it.
If you built a house in an expensive tax area, of course you're going to pay. My house is small, 750sqft, 2/1, well established neighborhood, fenced back yard, had new windows, 40yr architecture roof, new updated bath and kitchen (which we further upgraded after moving in), new driveway, new electrical and copper plumbing, all done in the 10 years before we bought it. Finished off a "screened back porch" into a 4 season bonus room with heat and air. Since it's still a "screened porch", taxes didn't go up..it was loosely enclosed when we bought...to that "screened porch" status. It's my favorite room in the house.
There's some stuff I'm going to do..finished the paint trim, etc, so I'll get something to do in the nicer spring weather.
Move/fence in the garden, trim the trees, etc.
So..more money not spent on debt means more to invest, and I'll be eligible for the work 401k soon. $1 for $1 match to 6%, not bad at all.
I figured out in another thread I'll have 6 "legs" (and Possibly one more) to my retirement"stool". Didn't realize it was so many..and I never ever had a pension offer.
So, I'm definitely happy(ier) this year.
Sorry, OP, if you've set yourself up for a major increase in expenses. But I see that as YOUR choices.. especially a 4th baby, and not accounting for the tax change in stays of the property. But those were YOUR choices.. so all I have to say is...time to pay the piper...and deal.
Best to you in sorting out your new life. Somehow, I think you'll be back in 10 years to cry over another divorce and more CS than you expected. But my crystal ball is a bit murky at the moment...
Still best to you...