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I go by what I learned in German (and Russian and French and Spanish). If the case is nominative, it's "I". If the case is accusative or dative, it's "me". The accusative and dative cases are made by putting "with, by, to" and other words with your pronoun. So it's "You and I are going to the store.", but "He gave the candy to Fred and me.". Come to think of it, I learned more about English grammar studying other languages than I ever did in English class. That's weird.
I go by what I learned in German (and Russian and French and Spanish). If the case is nominative, it's "I". If the case is accusative or dative, it's "me". The accusative and dative cases are made by putting "with, by, to" and other words with your pronoun. So it's "You and I are going to the store.", but "He gave the candy to Fred and me.". Come to think of it, I learned more about English grammar studying other languages than I ever did in English class. That's weird.
I found an old diary that I kept in 7th grade and was appalled by my grammar. "Me and him walked home from school together."
I must have learned proper English from my strict 8th grade teacher who had us writing thank you notes and diagramming sentences.
But, just as you mentioned above, I didn't REALLY understand English until I studied another language and then it was like a light bulb going off in my head. I learned Latin. Bingo! It all made sense to me and English grammar was something that was suddenly easy to understand.
For real, I think my vocabulary is above average, but I tailor my words to the company in which I'm speaking to. In the presence of idiots, I speak like a 5th grader, etc.
That's because you have to understand the structure of your primary language to learn the structure of another.
For a lot of us it's easier to learn the structure of another language. At least the structure is taught rather than just absorbed the way our native language is. After we understand the structure of the other language, the structure of our own language falls into place and makes sense.
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