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Sorry if I offend anyone but that's the first thing that comes to mind when I see a gentlemen wearing a scarf as a fashion statement. Now if you're a business man and are wearing one with a long sports coat, It looks quite proffesional. If you're wearing one because its cold out and you're trying to keep warm, then I can understand that as well. I just don't understand wearing one because you're trying to look "cute". Kind of makes it look as if you're trying too hard.
Example: I'm on the subwway this morning heading to work and I see a middle aged gentlemen board the train. He has a short casual wool coat on zipped up only half way with a thick scarf neatly tucked into his jacket covering his neck and chest. My first thought was "why not just zip the damn jacket up and you won't need a scarf?".
Your thoughts?
Maybe he wanted the extra warmth of the scarf to block the wind? Besides if he is gay or not or wears a scarf or not what the hell do you care? Does it seriously impact your real life? Will it make a difference in your day? If it is that important to you maybe you should ask every man you see wearing a scarf why they are wearing it and if they are gay.
Do you wear a scarf? Do you wear underwear? Are you gay? Are you straight? Do you pay your bills on time in full each month? Are those boots a fashion statement or are you wearing them because there is snow on the ground in July? Do you brush and floss 3 times a day? Are you gay because you wear boots? Are you gay because you run the sweeper in your home? Are you gay because you wear clothes?
I have one of those black and white checkerboard scarf that all the Arab guys wear. I wear it when it is really cold out. So far this year has been warm, so not really needed.
I got the look for it, and No it does not look gay at all.
I like scarves on men , I think unlike women ,men have fewer choices when it comes to accessories so good on them for taking pride in their appearance and trying a little harder.
Not quite sure what is "Gay" about wearing a scarf ?
If it was a Hermes silk square you might look slightly like Noel Coward on acid but a nice woolen or cashmere scarf is just a perfect way to accessorise your look as a bloke. And has a purpose which is to keep you warm. You can also add a little dash of colour which is great for businessmen who like my Husband have to wear drab monochrome suits for work. It adds a little fun ,making a suit look less severe and drab.
Well dressed men are so sexy IMO, the scruffy /super plain look is grossly over rated . A little flourish does not a Gay man make though there is nothing wrong with being Gay.
I wish men in our society were allowed to be a little more groomed without aspertions being cast upon their sexuality. I also like Pink Work Shirts on men , I think it looks smart and sexy and not at all feminine. Guys can look fabulous in the right pink. I actually like it better on men than women.
I wish more men looked "Gay" if Gay is the new word for well groomed, and well dressed.... We should all aspire to a little more "Gayness" if that is the case.
Also a real man does not give a monkey's derriere what other people think of him and is sure enough of his sexuality to wear whatever he wants. Be it a Denim overall or beautifully cut Italian tailoring.
Sorry if I offend anyone but that's the first thing that comes to mind when I see a gentlemen wearing a scarf as a fashion statement. Now if you're a business man and are wearing one with a long sports coat, It looks quite proffesional. If you're wearing one because its cold out and you're trying to keep warm, then I can understand that as well. I just don't understand wearing one because you're trying to look "cute". Kind of makes it look as if you're trying too hard.
Example: I'm on the subwway this morning heading to work and I see a middle aged gentlemen board the train. He has a short casual wool coat on zipped up only half way with a thick scarf neatly tucked into his jacket covering his neck and chest. My first thought was "why not just zip the damn jacket up and you won't need a scarf?".
Your thoughts?
IF the man is handsome enough, hot enough, alpha enough, he can pull off any look!
I like scarves on men , I think unlike women ,men have fewer choices when it comes to accessories so good on them for taking pride in their appearance and trying a little harder.
Not quite sure what is "Gay" about wearing a scarf ?
If it was a Hermes silk square you might look slightly like Noel Coward on acid but a nice woolen or cashmere scarf is just a perfect way to accessorise your look as a bloke. And has a purpose which is to keep you warm. You can also add a little dash of colour which is great for businessmen who like my Husband have to wear drab monochrome suits for work. It adds a little fun ,making a suit look less severe and drab.
Well dressed men are so sexy IMO, the scruffy /super plain look is grossly over rated . A little flourish does not a Gay man make though there is nothing wrong with being Gay.
I wish men in our society were allowed to be a little more groomed without aspertions being cast upon their sexuality. I also like Pink Work Shirts on men , I think it looks smart and sexy and not at all feminine. Guys can look fabulous in the right pink. I actually like it better on men than women.
I wish more men looked "Gay" if Gay is the new word for well groomed, and well dressed.... We should all aspire to a little more "Gayness" if that is the case.
Also a real man does not give a monkey's derriere what other people think of him and is sure enough of his sexuality to wear whatever he wants. Be it a Denim overall or beautifully cut Italian tailoring.
you got that right!!!
and yeah, I will wear a pink dress shirt to go to an affair, and look totally masculine, and fierce, ta-boot !!! holla !!!
Well dressed men are so sexy IMO, the scruffy /super plain look is grossly over rated . A little flourish does not a Gay man make though there is nothing wrong with being Gay.
I wish men in our society were allowed to be a little more groomed without aspertions being cast upon their sexuality. I also like Pink Work Shirts on men , I think it looks smart and sexy and not at all feminine. Guys can look fabulous in the right pink. I actually like it better on men than women.
I wish more men looked "Gay" if Gay is the new word for well groomed, and well dressed.... We should all aspire to a little more "Gayness" if that is the case.
Being well dressed increases your perceived attractiveness by at least 30% in my book.
I wish more men looked "Gay" if Gay is the new word for well groomed, and well dressed.... We should all aspire to a little more "Gayness" if that is the case.
And it doesn't say much for straight men if anything that's not sloppy and lazy is "gay."
I have pink cufflinks today, with pink floral boxers. A pink striped shirt and a dark suit.
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