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There seems to be absolutely no thought by some of the posters to EVEN ask or consider what their partner even wants. Obviously the line needs to feel reasonable -- but to not even think about asking is going down a very selfish relationship that simply isn't going to last.
Shaving down below isn't a simple request. Removing pubic hair is either painful, or very time-consuming, or extremely expensive (for laser removal). Furthermore, with shaving and waxing there are health risks.
(I came across dozens of articles, many on medical sites, and they all say the same thing.)
Asking someone to shave/pluck/wax/ laser their pubes is a different order of magnitude from being asked to wear his favourite sexy dress, asking him to wear your fav shirt, or to do it on a bear rug.
Nothing selfish about not giving in to extreme demands.
I've been dating a very low maintenance girl over the past few months. She doesn't seem to maintain her pubic hair at all, which I find to be a major turn off. To make matters worse, she trimmed the area around visible portion of the bikini area before a beach trip, but stopped there! This is not a double standard I'm trying to impose but its a huge turn off and I wouldn't even consider going down on her with its current state. How can I bring this up in a pleasant way to express my preferences without hurting her feelings?
LOL you would not have got much action in the 70's.
Edit: Srsly though, you should offer to shave her as a foreplay game.
Last edited by jtab4994; 08-12-2014 at 12:15 PM..
Reason: Added a srsly
Shaving isnt painful and itchy if done gently on a moistened surface.
Your cleaning routine after shaving also matters in preventing itch issues. I usually bathe/shower after shaving, and wash the shaved area with warm water. I also pat the shaved area with a towel after showering instead of rubbing it.
Key point is to go easy on shaved skin.
It's HELL when it begins growing in (something I experienced when I was very young after they shaved me prior to surgery for a broken femur). The itching was worse than the post-op pain.
If it's that important to a partner (or either sex), then let the one making the request pay for his/her partner to go to the best laser hair removal specialist in the nearest major city. (For me that would mean a trip to London or Paris.)
Its pretty standard to keep things tidy down there, and a mouth full of hair is not really too fun.
LOL. I became an adult in the 1970s when a natural full bush was the standard and it never scared anyone away.
P.S. If you are getting a mouthful of hair when you do this maneuver, either you are doing it wrong or your girlfriend belongs in the book of world records.
P.S. If you are getting a mouthful of hair when you do this maneuver, either you are doing it wrong or your girlfriend belongs in the book of world records.
Ha! I was thinking this, too. If he's getting a mouthful of hair he's in the wrong place.
Exactly, and it is only a ridiculous trend that started about 15 to 20 years ago in porn and strip clubs!
Ridiculous it is....and yet these kids are programmed with an upside down reality. I shake my head every time I see a thread like this because there is nothing more beautiful and exciting than a full bush.
Why only shave the bikini line and leave a massive bush behind? Obviously she is subscribing selectively to grooming which is unfortunate. If she has any concern over an aspect of her appearance, I am the one looking at her most. It'd be nice to have a consideration. Also, a lack of openness with sexual preferences is a turn off. She won't initiate any form of physical contact outside a kiss.
~~ It's not all about you! If you want it baby smooth than you pay the fee to have it done and up kept every six weeks...Shaving a *****, needs be done daily, most end up with ingrown hairs skin rashes, bumps skin irritating from the skin rubbing against the other person.Plus men who shave down under feel like your bedding a porcupine half the time...Not saying you can't trim, clean it up a bit..There a reason why you have pubic hair... http://www.theguardian.com/commentis...b-stop-shaving
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~~ It's not all about you! If you want it baby smooth than you pay the fee to have it done and up kept every six weeks...Shaving a *****, needs be done daily, most end up with ingrown hairs skin rashes, bumps skin irritating from the skin rubbing against the other person.Plus men who shave down under feel like your bedding a porcupine half the time...Not saying you can't trim, clean it up a bit..There a reason why you have pubic hair... 