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View Poll Results: What types of clothing did (or do) your parents/guardians forbid you from buying/wearing?
some types (please specify in a reply) 25 40.32%
none, and I'm male 13 20.97%
none, and I'm female 24 38.71%
Voters: 62. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 09-29-2018, 04:46 AM
 
Location: North Oakland
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What DID she like? Preppy clothes. Shetland sweaters, kilt skirts, Bass Weejuns, Etienne Aigner purses and shoes, Villager and Ladybug clothes.
This is what the girls wore when I started high school. I wore the boy version (all my Alan Paine sweaters had socks that matched). By the end, it was bell bottoms and "tops." Jeans weren't allowed yet in my high school, but they're what everyone was wearing the following year, in college.
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Old 09-29-2018, 05:11 AM
 
Location: near bears but at least no snakes
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1950s schools had dress codes. My mother didn't have to tell me what to wear--school would have sent me home if I wore pants instead of a skirt. She didn't like it when I bought spike heels but told me to go ahead if I thought I could wear them. I learned the hard way with those and ended up in the podiatrist's office.
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Old 09-29-2018, 06:10 AM
 
Location: Where the sun likes to shine!!
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Denim jackets, back in the early 80's they were for bad boys.
I loved those bad boys in denim jackets, lol. Actually back in the 80's there were some truly artistic denim jackets that the kids painted album covers on. Now that was talent.



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Old 09-29-2018, 06:40 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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I don’t remember my parents telling me not to wear anything, but my first job in the mid 1960s was on a food truck that went around to factories at lunchtime. One day I wore a pair of jeans to work and my boss didn’t think it was appropriate. I was only visible from the waist up on the truck anyway. Those might have been the first pair of jeans I ever got.
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Old 09-29-2018, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I graduated high school in 1996.

What was banned for me:
  • Pants at church - no kinds of pants, even dress pants
  • Jeans with holes
  • Anything that showed cleavage at all
  • Until about age 14 I couldn’t wear skirts or dresses without tights or hose, church always required tights or hose. Eventually I wore her down on going bare legged
  • Leggings with shirts that didn’t cover my butt
  • Bikinis
  • Shorts/skirts/dresses that were above mid-thigh
  • Anything form fitting around my butt (unless it was covered up)
  • makeup
  • visible bra straps

My mom was very conservative. She has loosened up a bit now, but still complains about cleavage.
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Old 09-29-2018, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Female and my mother didn't forbid me to wear anything. I graduated HS in 1984 and the styles were fairly conservative. Mostly jeans and tops. I was definitely conservative in my clothing, lol. I think the worst thing I wore was halter tops and that was during the summer and not at school.

She didn't "forbid" me but she didn't want me to wear makeup. To this day I still have no idea how to apply makeup
I was the same, except I was allowed to wear makeup in high school. I didn't wear a lot of it though, just some eye shadow and rouge.
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Old 09-29-2018, 08:42 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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I loved those bad boys in denim jackets, lol. Actually back in the 80's there were some truly artistic denim jackets that the kids painted album covers on. Now that was talent.
I would KILL for that Boston or Beatles denim jacket! Please, help save a life and tell me where I can buy them.


Well... Um... I bet my parents would have been dismayed if I had wanted to wear a bra or leggings. I'm a man.

I remember the rules for girls at my high school. When wearing a dress, the length had to be at least as long as when the girl kneeled the skirt had to touch the ground. Simple rule.
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Old 09-29-2018, 10:11 PM
 
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Well... Um... I bet my parents would have been dismayed if I had wanted to wear a bra or leggings. I'm a man.
The way things are going in this Country, it may be mandatory in a year or two, that men wear bras at least one day a week just to make everyone feel equal.
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Old 09-30-2018, 12:13 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Actually a bra for men is called a bro. If leggings become mandatory for men, at least we men can advertise our packages.

You won't find me doing that on a cold day.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:03 AM
 
Location: California
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I attended high school in the 90s and had no restrictions. My parents pretty much let me do whatever for the most part. Very laid-back people. I had a lot of problems with my health and struggled a lot mentally when I was young, so I think they went ultra easy on me. They also just don't really care about controlling me though. Never as a kid and never as an adult either. Even when I had a lot of problems with drugs and alcohol, they were more like "We are here for you and hope you'll change but we know we can't stop you". Overall this was good, because I did go to them many times when I truly needed help, which probably saved my life a few times. Had they shunned me, I doubt I would have survived my hard times.
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