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In the end is all about self responsibility, if you cannot trust others -potential sex partners and doctors- you must do what's best for you, and only for you.
Instead of starting a debate, maybe you should visit an specialist -a doctor and also a psychologist- that would help you best understand what you want exactly, and the best way to accomplish it.
Unfortunately -for you- the options are limited, but you must accept that you can be accountable for your actions. Unless you decide to give up sex altogether, get yourself a male partner or an inflatable doll, there will always be a risk of a pregnancy.
And would a woman actually be willing to be in a relationship with someone who is never going to any have penis-in-vagina sex with her until after he gets surgically castrated?
Some women are not that much into sex, at all.
But would YOU be ok in a relationship like that? At best, practicing other forms of sex and, at worst, "helping yourself" forever?
Again, another option for you is a woman who had hysterectomy. (Online dating allows to look up potential partners based on some unique parameters that otherwise would not have become known until much, much later into relationship, thus making it easier for some).
Or, how about a woman who had her tubes tied, and also would agree to take birth control pills, then you with your vasectomy, as well as condom to top it off? Still nervous?
OP: Have you actually read up on the procedure, possible complications and the "afterward"? Here is an article: Orchiectomy - procedure, blood, removal, pain, time, infection, operation, medication You may not have to worry about having sex after the procedure. Of course, that is castration but I thought that was your main fixation last week was it?
Unless you have this done on the street, and that's a good way to assure you never get anyone pregnant if you go to an early grave, I am sure they will require you to get some kind of counseling.
And, no, before surgery, you sign a release and it will explain that there is no 100% with surgery. If you want birth control that 100% effective, it is called "abstinence". Everyone should realize the risks involved in having sex, especially STDs.
OP hopes for a world where he can have sex with who ever is willing and never risk a pregnancy happening. Now, there are post menopausal women, "cougars" or are they not that old. Exploring the possibilities of vasectomies and castration, an older, experienced..............
These thread(s) have turned into arguments directed at individual posters rather than the topic, and crossing multiple threads does not help.
1) Address the position not the poster. If you need to refer to some aspect about anther poster to make your point, your point isn't an appropriate response.
2) While new threads being opened as a result of a conversation starting to go off topic, creating a new thread to discuss the same topic just creates a lot of people referring between the threads. If the topic is unique, that shouldn't happen.
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