Relationship complications

to sumluh 09, i know what you are going through i been through that for years, it's hard to just up and leave someone that you car about, BUt its not right for him to do you like that. and yes you both are on different levels

Hello, I newly single, and its bad being by myself, i found out my ex was cheating on me. I have to learn how to be by my self agian. i have been in this relationship for 7 years,and i thought he loved me.

To Miserableinlvoe_35, i am sorry. She needs to realize how toxic it is to say she could live without a physical connection with you for the rest of her life. it's not about sex, it's suppossed to be love.

In a relationship for over 5 yrs now. Problem has become sex of course. Or lack of it, but not just that but the lack of even feeling like I do anything for her. She claims she could never have sex again and be ok. Does that mean I have to learn how to do without even the flirty looks or intimate touches as well. I feel like I'm needing intimacy from her not really the sex but she just sees the sex part. How do I get thru to her

hi i am so board i have been married 30 years i was 19

Hi. I am newly single, and actually gettin gover it. I never thought I'd be okay without my one, but I am.

Hi, tiffonee....ya know, sometimes guys are SO in touch with their feminine emotional sides, that it can cause mega problems, too! Take my husband, for example. He is a raging alcoholic and becomes verbally and physically abusive, sometimes before he even gets drunk!!! Then he cries about how terrible he feels and sometimes hearing about how emotionally co-dependent he is on me is a real biznich. I know about old relationship drama overlapping into current relationships. Been there and am doing that.

Hey all..I am currently in a heated argument with my current bf about emotions. I realize not all men are very comfortable with that but what about your significant other? The one you are supposed to spend your life with or try and see if that's the person you want to spend your life with. Anyways I sit here all pissed off and reading everyones comments and I think back to a couple of years ago. A couple of years ago I was in a needy relationship. I had to be needed all the time by this guy he couldnt be independent if his life depended on it. He used to call me names and physically abuse me. It seems such a small fight about emotions and sensitivity after having a relationship like the one I had but I think that there's ssome sort of backlash because of it that is hurting my now relationship. Did I confuse anyone yet? :S

Okay it's been a long while since I last posted and of course I am back with Alex. This time with many complications because of me leaving. but, I don't regret it. I know now how things are for real. So now I have a sense of whats reality.? I know how he is when no ones looking, or he thinks no one cares. But, the problem is that now I have someone on my **** list. I have never wanted to kill someone so bad. This girl, she messed up. But, now I am in the Nationla Honor Society so I have to be good.

Right now, I am single. I have left the one that I share this site with. Even though, he has never been on it. I am broken down right now. I don't even know why I am doing this, I guess cause I ahve lost the connection I used to have with him. But, I am madly in love... Does it sound stupid yet? Well, he says he wants me back buthe's trying to give me space hoping I will miss him and come back and we can forget it happened. This isn't the first time this has happened, but everytime it gets moire and more serious for me. This is the second time i've left him for this reason. But I miss him SOOO much. This weekend is going to kill me. And I just heard he might be talking to another girl. WTF