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The doctor said that it's job and career related issues and I just need to get on a better career path, and I should sleep better he said. I'm trying to do that.
I've been having insomnia for a while and I found out the cause. I noticed on nights when me and my gf do not have sex, I can sleep for the most part and do not have insomnia. But on the nights we do, which is a lot more, I have insomnia for pretty much the whole night almost.
I did tests and we decided to get up earlier in the morning and have it then, before work, if we wanted to. I sleep much better now. And sometimes we say to each other, it's early evening only still, let's have sex in the even if we feel like it, and see if anything happens, and yes, insomnia every time we do for me.
However, it's not as enjoyable to do it in the morning since we are just waking up and have to keep our eye on the clock before work, and possibly do it in more of a hurry then.
So is it normal to get insomnia from sex in the evening, even if it's early evening? I did some research on it, and all I could find is that guys sleep better from sex, and couldn't find it actually causing insomnia. Even my gf gets sleepy after, so she might not like doing it in the morning as much before work therefore, but not sure, I can ask.
But what do you think, is this normal? And why did this happen to me now, since I didn't have problems with this, when I was younger?
Maybe you are not getting enough exercise during sex. Me, I always collapsed after, and slept like a baby ! Try working a little harder.
True, but since I was told this is not normal, I just wanted to discover what the route problem is, rather than deny my gf sex.
Things have obviously turned around for you then! I thought some earlier threads of yours were about her not really wanting to do some of the stuff you did? And that was causing some trouble "finishing"?
Oh well I've been more open to doing things she wants to and as a result, she wants to have sex more to. However, in order to orgasm, which she likes me to do, I have to imagine, the more rough stuff she doesn't like doing, and I feel guilty having to picture that to orgasm so far.
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