My house was built at the same time as yours. I have pickled oak in the kitchen and baths. For some reason the cabinets in the bath dont look as pink as the kitchen. I painted mine. Some are against painting cabinets but I like the look myself. Just make sure you prep well and use good paint. I used oil based paint by Ben. Moore. It took me a month. I took my time. We then cut out the centers in the upper cabinets and installed glass. Then we got granite counters. My cabinet above the stove is also slighter higher but a short cabinet. Almost makes me wonder if it was moved up a bit to accommodate adding a microwave later.
Anyway, congrats on your new place.