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Would you put off job hunting while getting a divorce? What if there was a custody battle?
My problem is the ex can be quite destructive. He's already caused me much strife, and it's affected me in every way, including current work. I'm afraid to start a new job and in the middle of making a good impression, get sidetracked by my ex.
I'm also concerned about taking time off for court and lawyer meetings. My current employer understands.
At the same time, I've been separated for a long time. Do I really have to continue to put my life on hold indefinitely?
Would love to hear from those who've been there.
P.s. Is there a way prospective employers can figure out who we are on this site?
Agree.
Also, in a new job, you have to be alert all the time at first. In a known job, you can likely coast, which will be a lot better if you're having upsets. No, life isn't on hold forever, but for the present time until all this is ironed out. Having an employer "who understands" is golden.
Well why would you want to change jobs? Certainly there are risks to starting a job search while you're going through a messy divorce. But they may not outweigh the benefits of getting a new job.
It really depends on your individual situation. Your lawyer should be able to advise you as to whether or not it would be risky for you to undertake a job search before the divorce is finalized.
Agree.
Also, in a new job, you have to be alert all the time at first. In a known job, you can likely coast, which will be a lot better if you're having upsets. No, life isn't on hold forever, but for the present time until all this is ironed out. Having an employer "who understands" is golden.
^^^^^ this. Stay put. You have no idea how long this might drag on and you may find you have to spend more time in court than you planned.
When you start a new job whether you're a low level employee or the CFO you're expected to be there.
Having an employer and coworkers who understand your situation is golden.
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