Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > New York > Long Island
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:15 PM
 
344 posts, read 717,931 times
Reputation: 210

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by TomMoser View Post
Most people realize that this is the way these folks get paid. It will just make you cheap.
I used to think you were a good poster.

Calling someone "cheap" because they either: a) didn't know of the practice (and what first-time homebuyer would), or b) don't want to cough up yet more money after paying NY's exorbitant closing costs? It's not "cheap." It's rational. It's tough out there. I'd rather have the money than a stranger I will never see again.

Don't tip, guys. Hold the line.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:17 PM
 
Location: East Northport
3,351 posts, read 9,761,758 times
Reputation: 1337
Oh, sorry. I meant to say it will make you look cheap.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:19 PM
 
344 posts, read 717,931 times
Reputation: 210
Quote:
Originally Posted by TomMoser View Post
Would they feel any more comfortable if it was called a fee?
Um, yes.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:20 PM
 
344 posts, read 717,931 times
Reputation: 210
Quote:
Originally Posted by TomMoser View Post
Oh, sorry. I meant to say it will make you look cheap.
That I can live with.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:22 PM
bg7
 
7,694 posts, read 10,563,106 times
Reputation: 15300
Nothing.
What a con.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 02:42 PM
 
Location: East Northport
3,351 posts, read 9,761,758 times
Reputation: 1337
However, failing to give your garbageman a bottle of water can cost you a national election.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Lake Grove
2,752 posts, read 2,761,376 times
Reputation: 4494
How much is "very little"? Does it depend on the sale price of the home? I'm not being sarcastic, I'd really like to know more about this. Thank you Tom for enlightening us.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 03:36 PM
 
344 posts, read 717,931 times
Reputation: 210
Quote:
Originally Posted by LegalDiva View Post
You know whats even more ludicrous than tipping a title closer? Tipping garbage men and mailmen!

What is an appropriate gift to give to the mailman and garbage man?
Wait. There exists another LI message board?

EDIT: Oh, it's for mommies/women.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-19-2012, 05:49 PM
 
3,445 posts, read 6,066,898 times
Reputation: 6133
Quote:
Originally Posted by LegalDiva View Post
You know whats even more ludicrous than tipping a title closer? Tipping garbage men and mailmen!

What is an appropriate gift to give to the mailman and garbage man?
Unless the mailman or garbagemen do something that goes above and beyond their regular job, I wouldnt give them a dime. They are reasonably well compensated for their job and they are government employees who shouldnt be receiving tips to begin with (whether legal or not). I do tip the UPS driver when I have had years when he was making regular deliveries and done extras like wrapping the packages in plastic on rainy days.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2012, 09:56 AM
 
384 posts, read 434,834 times
Reputation: 491
Quote:
Originally Posted by TomMoser View Post
No need to get nasty limaman. I'm just trying to educate people. Sometimes people don't realize how other people make their living. It bothered me to see people treating title closers (who I work with every day and work very hard for very little money) as money grubbers because they are expected to pay them and it's called a "tip". Would they feel any more comfortable if it was called a fee?
Money grubbers? Really?
What about bad realtors?
Would you care to share the names you call those professionals?
How about the closers who sell your personal information?
Do we need to go there?
Enough is enough.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:




Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > New York > Long Island
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 07:59 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top