Can somebody please tell me where my original message has gone? I received a few replies to it then it vanished from the forum. I must apologise for seeming to appear stupid, but I have only been using the computer for 3 months, the same length of time I have known about my father, so I really do not know what I am doing most of the time, and I am sorry to say but I do not fully understand this website at the moment either, so I may need some help. Thank you. Sharon.