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Old 04-28-2009, 07:07 PM
 
Location: 95468
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your bothering me today. I never noticed you too much until today, if it is attention you are seeking, please go to craigslist.

And so it starts.
It's just a matter of time.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:09 PM
 
Location: NJ
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And so it starts.
It's just a matter of time.
im a happily married man, she is going to have to look for love somewhere else.
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Old 04-29-2009, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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ohh terrible, sorry and glad you came here to comment. I have 13 years plus a few months about sober!!!!
Oh I am truly HAPPY for you believe me! God, do ANYTHING to keep that temptation away!!!!I wish you continued luck and a good life!
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Old 04-29-2009, 07:21 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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i have watched many episodes of intervention so im pretty much an expert.

im also in total disagreement with how they treat "addiction." nobody is going to agree with me on this subject though. what the hell, ill say it, once you call it an "addiction" you have give the person an excuse to use. its just weakness.
With all due respect "watching a show" and living with an addict or an addiction makes you more knowledgeable. I just feel some peolpe genes make them more canidates for having more of an addictive personality.
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Old 04-29-2009, 07:48 AM
 
Location: NJ
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With all due respect "watching a show" and living with an addict or an addiction makes you more knowledgeable. I just feel some peolpe genes make them more canidates for having more of an addictive personality.
i dont really believe that watching the show makes me an expert. however, it does give me some insight into the situation. i can see that 90%+ of the people going through treatment seem to fail so i feel comfortable questioning their methods.
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Old 04-29-2009, 08:00 AM
 
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CaptainNJ,

While I agree that your tough-love, hard-line stance is pragmatic and that it encourages the thinking that 'you are stronger than the drug', one of our forum members came here for the support and encouragement that they may have really needed at that moment. I think it's always nice when we can share a kind word instead of judging others for whatever reasons (covert or overt) that we may have.

Stevemorse, good for you. Keep being strong. You and the people you love will never suffer for your strength and your good choices. Only good things will come of it. Keep up the good work.
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Old 04-29-2009, 08:08 AM
 
Location: NJ
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cigarettes are harder to quit than crack both physically and mentally addicting. Hard to rid but you did it, thank you!!
i am glad steve chose to go to the supermarket instead of using drugs. however, dont do that too often or you steve will get fat.

the reason cigarettes are harder to quit is because 1. they are easier to get. 2. not illegal (no risk of jail) 3. less perceived negative consequences.

it has everything to do with the equation and nothing to do with a physical and mental "addiction."
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Savannah GA/Lk Hopatcong NJ
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Marilyn

You go girl So happy you fought off the urge
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:55 AM
 
Location: new jersey
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i am glad steve chose to go to the supermarket instead of using drugs. however, dont do that too often or you steve will get fat.

the reason cigarettes are harder to quit is because 1. they are easier to get. 2. not illegal (no risk of jail) 3. less perceived negative consequences.

it has everything to do with the equation and nothing to do with a physical and mental "addiction."
must be nice to be able to be so high and mighty. since you seem to have all the answers i look forward to reading all the books you will be publishing on the issue of addictions. oh that's right, you get your knowledge from tv. i'll be sure to come to you, the "expert" if i ever need to help someone i care about to get off of drugs or any other addiction.

marilyn, good for you! you should be really proud of yourself. any time you can overcome your urge is a milestone. keep up the good work and despite certain cretins on this board, most of us are very happy for you!
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Old 04-29-2009, 11:25 AM
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Location: Florida
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Good job, Marilyn!
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