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Originally Posted by FS22
Stormgal I do not buy into your theory because women acting like men is not at all attractive. You describe the NYC dating scene like it is normal and natural. It is not.
When a women is a big giant body builder with big manly muscles, a powerhouse giant beast, that is not feminine. Those women are not feminine. They are acting like men.
When women are super career ball busting and driven (which was the traditional role of masculinity) that is not attractive for men. There are thousands of examples like that.
When a women is promiscuous that is not attractive to men. We steer away from that. We like women who do not sleep around. You can take millions of feminist articles and things and it will never ever ever change the fact that men do not want women who sleep around.
Straight men like feminine women. All of the feminism in the world will never change that fact. You can strip men of everything powerful and it will never change the fact that men like feminine women. You can even commit genocide and kill all men, and it still will never change the fact that men like feminine women. We don't like female bruts. We don't like drunken female sailor bruts. It is not attractive to us.
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Some of these women are lesbians and could care less. Some women never get married, never have kids and never become lesbians(some women have low sex drive).
I also know straight men to pay women to dominate them, tie them up, and S&M them. Some straight men do like dominating women.
Of course some men are gay.
It maybe more accurate to say the majority of straight men like feminine women. But never speak in absolutes, because different people like different things.
Honestly, I don't think women who are superachievers in general give a damn about what men like. They are going to do what they feel is good for them in their lives, and whatever male or female potential relationships that come their way have to be on terms acceptable to them.
What idiot is going to give up success just because some retarded man likes dumb women. He can always go hire a hooker (that's super feminine).
I think the problem for blue collar guys is that on the lower end of the scale, women become teachers and nurses and this puts their earning well above the average blue collar man who isn't good in school. Who is to say these women want a man who can't do much better than stock boy or delivery boy? We all know the union sector/manual labor sector outside of construction took a huge cut in NYC (goodbye working class guy jobs in industry and in shipping).