Is kissing family members on the lips appropriate? (girlfriend, husband, person)
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Any act or action done in a sexual context mainly. Or put another way there are very few actions that are inherently sexual. It is usually entirely dependent on context.
Take nudity for example.
I can be nude in contexts that are not sexual. On the beach. At home with my family. Changing in the changing rooms with my friends or family or children. And so on. Nothing sexual about any of it. Nothing arousing about any of it.
I can also be nude in a sexual context. Which is sexual and is arousing. Both my own nudity and that of the other person.
The point being that many things are not in and of themselves sexual. The context in which they are done is. Be it nudity. Kissing. Cuddling. Caressing. And so on.
Being nude in front of your family is normal? And kissing them on the lips?
Any act or action done in a sexual context mainly. Or put another way there are very few actions that are inherently sexual. It is usually entirely dependent on context.
Take nudity for example.
I can be nude in contexts that are not sexual. On the beach. At home with my family. Changing in the changing rooms with my friends or family or children. And so on. Nothing sexual about any of it. Nothing arousing about any of it.
I can also be nude in a sexual context. Which is sexual and is arousing. Both my own nudity and that of the other person.
The point being that many things are not in and of themselves sexual. The context in which they are done is. Be it nudity. Kissing. Cuddling. Caressing. And so on.
There is absolutely no reason to be nude in front of your family unless it's some kind of medical emergency with burns or something.
What the f is wrong with you, dude?
Being nude in front of your family is normal? And kissing them on the lips?
I am not sure the word "normal" is actually all that helpful. These are things people in families often do. They are also things people in other families do not do.
For example yes - nudity in certain contexts is very much an occurrence in my house hold. Nothing at all wrong with that despite your vague implication there might be.
It happens a hell of a lot less however than - say - a nudist household. Where nudity is almost the constant norm. There is also nothing wrong with that - but it is simply not remotely close to our levels here in my home either. But they too are as often perfectly normal healthy and well balanced families as yours or mine. So what's the issue?
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Originally Posted by mash123
There is absolutely no reason to be nude in front of your family unless it's some kind of medical emergency with burns or something.
I am not buying into the "reason to be" way you put that though. You are putting a lot more thinking behind it than I would when doing it. There are simply situations where it happens. I do not think in terms of "reasons to be doing it". I do not go into situations planning to do it or weighing up pros and cons of it. It just happens as and when it happens.
The counter point to your post here though is pretty obvious. As you talk about "no reason to be nude" I would merely shoot back "There is no reason _not_ to be nude" either. Just like I do not whip off all my clothes because I think there is a reason to do so - I do not throw loads on either when I am nude because I somehow thing there is a reason to do that either.
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Originally Posted by mash123
What the f is wrong with you, dude?
You tell me if you wish. I see nothing wrong - nor have you pointed out anything wrong. You just drop a line like this laden with implication something is - without showing there actually is. What is actually the issue do you think? Maybe there is something wrong with you - not me - "dude".
But I suppose if people insist we must sexualise something that is not in and of itself a sexual act - we are going to get a proportion of pure nonsense posts on the thread.
The propensity of incest is higher in families that find this kind of behavior is OK (kissing on the lips, being nude around each other all the time)
Typically inbred hillbillies - No matter what part of the Earth or culture it is. Incest is not good. It leads to genetic defects. There is literally no defense of any kind for excessive intimacy with blood relatives.
I can be nude in contexts that are not sexual. On the beach. At home with my family. Changing in the changing rooms with my friends or family or children. And so on. Nothing sexual about any of it. Nothing arousing about any of it.
For example yes - nudity in certain contexts is very much an occurrence in my house hold. Nothing at all wrong with that despite your vague implication there might be.
Why is this occurring in your household? Something is not right here.
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