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i'm not planning. it's just fate because it seems like they moved into my town. we already meet face to face and either they snubbed me or didn't recognized me. i was going to say hi to them but there was a chance they could have snubbed me, so i didn't.
Unless your appearance has changed drastically in the last 12 years(big weight gain or loss, different color hair, etc) they recognized you. So it sure sounds like they snubbed you. They have good reason to, they scammed you.
Look, you already said you don't want the money back(and after all this time it wasn't going to happen anyway), who cares what they do for a living, they're not nice people, you know that.
Leave it be. If by chance you do see them again, ignore them like they ignored you. Hopefully it won't happen.
Yep, the heck with them... They have no sadness about what they did....
it's just the fact that when we do meet. in their mind, they'll be thinking i took your money and lied straight to your face. that's why your best friend can be your worst enemy because they know your weaknesses. my weakness was i'm not a violent person and i was too nice.
Unless your appearance has changed drastically in the last 12 years(big weight gain or loss, different color hair, etc) they recognized you. So it sure sounds like they snubbed you. They have good reason to, they scammed you.
Look, you already said you don't want the money back(and after all this time it wasn't going to happen anyway), who cares what they do for a living, they're not nice people, you know that.
Leave it be. If by chance you do see them again, ignore them like they ignored you. Hopefully it won't happen.
it's just the fact that when we do meet. in their mind, they'll be thinking i took your money and lied straight to your face. that's why your best friend can be your worst enemy because they know your weaknesses. my weakness was i'm not a violent person and i was too nice.
People who take money from you under the guise of the loan, than lie about never getting the money, aren't thinking about what they did to you. As much as you would like to think they feel guilty, they don't. That was the plan all along.
They know they wronged you, but until they saw you after all this time they weren't thinking about how they wronged you many years ago. If they did they would have contacted you and gotten the money back to you.
As I just said unless your appearance is much different than 12 years ago they recognized you. But I guarantee you have not entered their thoughts for years.
Maya Angelou said "when people show themselves to you believe them".
No reason to be cordial to them, no reason to talk to them. You didn't see them.
People who take money from you under the guise of the loan, than lie about never getting the money, aren't thinking about what they did to you. As much as you would like to think they feel guilty, they don't. That was the plan all along.
They know they wronged you, but until they saw you after all this time they weren't thinking about how they wronged you many years ago. If they did they would have contacted you and gotten the money back to you.
As I just said unless your appearance is much different than 12 years ago they recognized you. But I guarantee you have not entered their thoughts for years.
Maya Angelou said "when people show themselves to you believe them".
No reason to be cordial to them, no reason to talk to them. You didn't see them.
from what i know about this person and the whole situation, i believe your scenario is what likely happened. i look the same. days before the loan i notice they started hanging around bad drug people, and my friend was acting a little passive aggressive toward me. but the real reason i think it all happened was because this person is all about ego, and they wanted to be better than me.
so my friend jump ship with the wrong crowd and used my weakness against me. there was no justifying them taking the money from me. i did not owe him anything or do anything to warrant the taking of my money. we were like family. i walked their dog and even baby sitted their niece and nephew. it was just a looong relationship of being a number 2 when they they wanted to number 1 coupled with bad drug people for support.
What is "money" here? I mean literally, how many dollars?
i appreciate your interest. i have no desire to get back together with them or my money if they offer it back to me. i'll respect them with a nod for the job they do, but as person they're a corrupt living liar. for someone that wanted to be better than me, the end result of their actions did the opposite, and i feel comfort in that. thanks
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