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Old 08-21-2015, 11:18 AM
 
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This is because they asked to switch rooms the second night at a hotel (new hotel) am so upset, I went on this church trip and it seemed like the whole time I was there people were trying to avoid me and exclude me. They moved when I would sit next to them or they would choose other spots over the one next to me. They also took pictures and tried to move their heads to block me out of the picture and when I saw a picture on FB of a group of people sitting eating lunch and I had been cut off except for my hand. Like they cut me out of the picture. Also I was in a room one night with one group of people but then because of a room mixup where we were double booked in our hotel, we had to switch rooms around. I was the only one out of my room asked to go to another room. Why me?? Do they think Im a lesbian? How on earth would I go about finding out if they think this?
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:20 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Why would you think that???
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Lake Grove
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Screw 'em, and enjoy the privacy. Seriously, be careful that you're not projecting. How to find out? indicate interest in a man or two, even briefly, that'll put it to rest.
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:41 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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do you shower daily, brush your teeth and are a friendly person?

If you are smelly and nasty, I get that people avoid you.

Anything else - ... maybe you just imagine it?
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Milwaukee, WI
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Start going to another church? Or ask someone, privately, what's the problem with you.
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:44 AM
 
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You know the saying;first impressions are long lasting
You might wanna change some of your behaviour how you exude yourself;see if it work
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Old 08-21-2015, 11:58 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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yeah, I would pull somebody aside (whom you think would be honest) and ask what is going on.

Then I would change churches and start fresh.
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Old 08-21-2015, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Denver 'burbs
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This sounds vaguely familiar. ...
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Old 08-21-2015, 12:08 PM
 
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This reminds me of The Story of the ugly duckling(no offence BTW)
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Old 08-21-2015, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Lone Star State to Peach State
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This sounds vaguely familiar. ...
I thought why???
Then I saw join date.
OP how would a message board know wtf you were treated like this??
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