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Old 12-07-2015, 02:50 PM
 
Location: TN/NC
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I live probably less than a half mile from an outdoor mall/"lifestyle center" and can't believe the craziness of the holiday season. The mall is essentially cut in half by a four lane road, and there are various crosswalks where shoppers can cross, but yesterday people were walking all over the place, endangering themselves and motorists.

Everywhere I went yesterday (gym, Burger King, grocery store, car wash) was absolutely jammed. Traffic was worse than rush hour, with people cutting each other off, clogging the intersections, blowing the horns.

It was about the most stressful day of doing what should be low key stuff I can remember since I moved here.

Does anyone else think manners and common sense just go out the window this time of year?
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:36 PM
 
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I'm sure people are stressed because it's this time of the year and that may explain their actions.
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Old 12-07-2015, 07:03 PM
 
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Manners and common sense didn't leave around holiday time. They left about 30 years ago . . .
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Old 12-07-2015, 07:45 PM
 
Location: The analog world
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I sympathize. I live less than a mile from an upscale mall, and traffic levels rise exponentially this time of year. If I could possibly avoid driving from Halloween until the second week of January, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Instead, I listen to mellow music and practice deep-breathing.
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Old 12-07-2015, 07:49 PM
 
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Survival of the fittest. The most obnoxious shopper gets the most bargains, by force.
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Old 12-07-2015, 09:41 PM
 
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somehow, and I don't know how this is possible,,
but

how is it ..when driving.. most of the people in front of me,,,are slower than me,,,and all the people behind me,,,,seem to be faster....wanting to pass
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Old 12-08-2015, 03:50 AM
 
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We avoid mall areas for the whole month of December unless we can visit mid day on Tues-Thur. Even then it can be crazy. The danger of driving and even parking this time of year is not worth it.
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Old 12-08-2015, 12:15 PM
 
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Living in a big city, I saw it. Drivers were aggressive. People were rude. It was just...ugly. I wouldn't go out much and started doing my shopping online.

I live in a smaller city in another part of the country and I haven't seen it start here yet.
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Old 12-08-2015, 05:22 PM
 
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It bothers me so much that I haven't been to the mall in at least 5 years. I shop online, thank you very much. Keeps me sane!
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Old 12-08-2015, 06:59 PM
 
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I hate the holidays, especially all of the shoppers. I always have & always will avoid Black Friday at all costs, but it's especially hectic to even just go grocery shopping at this time of year. Looking forward to January...
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