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Tell your friend that she needs to stop being so possessive. Tell your friend to go get laid and stop controlling you. In plain English tell her to get a life. It's time u stand up to her. You do not have to take this.
I just feels like she is controlling and acts like a posessive husband.
I just feel like she gets super angry whenever I don't do what she says.
She went mad and yelled at me because I didn't wanna go. Told me I was complicating things and stuff like that.
I just feel like she is forcing me to stay there with her. I know she doesn't like to be alone but I just want to stay at home sometimes and have privacy and stuff but everytime I get thursdays and fridays free I am scared to go home earlier than saturday just because she might go mad at me.
I am just scared to do ANYTHING cause I might make her go mad at me.
After I came back from my boyfriend and went back to the city with her she complained that I was texting my bf too much and didn't talk to her.
She sometimes complains that she has to stand my sh*t and I tell her that I can move out from there because she doesn't have to stay with me if she doesn't want to but then she says she stands my sh*t because she loves me. She sometimes makes me feel insecure
I know I hate to live with her but I don't know she might feel the same.
I am just sick of all these fears. I am scared to go home cause she might go mad, I am scared to chat to my bf cause she might go bad.. And she is really touchy too.
Oh, and I would say that she's either a lesbian, bisexual, "experimenting," or she's just that way with you. But she's certainly interested in you as more than a friend.!Moderator cut: delete
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Originally Posted by powerpuffgirly
She wants me to cuddle her sometimes and she touches private parts sometimes
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You deserve better. I would drop her. She is not your friend and sounds mentally abusive by telling you you can't do things without her. This almost makes me think to the show, Snapped. Scary.
I just feel like she gets superangry whenever I don't do what she says.
She went mad and yelled at me because I didn't wanna go.
I get thursdays and fridays free I am scared to go home earlier than saturday just because she might go mad at me.
I am just scared to do ANYTHING cause I might make her go mad at me.
I don't know why I am so scared of her.
She sometimes complains that she has to stand my sh*t and I tell her that I can move out from there because she doesn't have to stay with me if she doesn't want to but then she says she stands my sh*t because shelovesme.
I know I hate to live with her but I don't know she might feel the same.
I am just sick of all these fears. I am scared to go home cause she might go mad, I am scared to chat to my bf cause she might go bad. WTF. And she is really touchy too. She wants me to cuddle her sometimes and she touches sometimes my **** or ass and say that they are too small and things like that.
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Op, Your "bf" is abusive. If you were my daughter I would tell you to move out ASAP. She is controlling, yells and you. You are afraid of her and scared when she gets mad. That is no life for you. You owe her nothing. Men are not the only ones who can be abusers or control freaks.
Your roommate is not your friend, she is clearly your abuser. Move out now. Figure some other living situation, even if it's temporary. Get your own place, find a hostel, check with the uni to see what help they can give you - but GET OUT NOW.
She's possessive. She either likes you romantically and is jealous of your BF and upset that you don't feel the same about her; or she doesn't have many friends and relies on you for her entire social life, and is jealous you have a BF and she doesn't. No, you aren't supposed to hate your best friend.
FWIW I went all the way through college with a couple different girls who turned out to be lesbians. I don't remember one of them ever having a BF, but one had a steady BF for probably all 4 years of college.
Dump her and walk away. No one should make you feel like that.
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