Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Non-Romantic Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
Old 12-20-2016, 12:39 PM
 
294 posts, read 207,646 times
Reputation: 346

Advertisements

My friend's husband always asks me about my dating every time I see him and seems quite enthusiastic when he asks. Just before they got married a mutual friend said in front of my friend how her husband wanted to date me before they got together. I was shocked the mutual friend said this as his wife was unaware and seemed insecure after this - I didn't know her husband liked me and he seemed embarrassed and was playing it down. I did like him when we were both single but nothing ever happened. I catch him looking at me when we all go out. I would never go after a married man but wonder why he keeps showing an interest in my dating.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-20-2016, 01:05 PM
 
Location: equator
11,164 posts, read 6,750,322 times
Reputation: 25770
Sounds to me like he's regretting he didn't go after you when he had the chance.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2016, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
30,585 posts, read 25,332,081 times
Reputation: 50812
Yeah, he likes you a little too much, I think.

Can you cool it with this couple for a few months? This might die of its own accord if you do.

Do not ever, ever give him any encouragement, but I know you would not.

Do not friend this guy on FB or communicate with him in any way without his wife knowing.

He needs to cool it. He isn't making himself look good, and he is endangering his marriage. He might not realize it, but he is being disloyal to his wife.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2016, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,926 posts, read 60,243,121 times
Reputation: 98359
Who knows?

If you don't want to fall over the cliff, don't walk close to the edge, though.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2016, 05:59 PM
 
19,981 posts, read 30,372,493 times
Reputation: 40103
guys aren't too bright

sounds like he would hump your leg if you smiled at him




if it does irritate you ..... just ask why he keeps asking??
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2016, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
11,578 posts, read 6,785,787 times
Reputation: 14786
Sounds pretty creepy to me!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-20-2016, 08:12 PM
 
Location: USA
3,568 posts, read 1,353,983 times
Reputation: 4221
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life View Post
Who knows?

If you don't want to fall over the cliff, don't walk close to the edge, though.
^^ This.

I'd distance myself. If you feel you must respond say "Don't worry about it." Don't answer his questions.

Tread carefully. No telling what this moron has told his wife or others.

Stop wondering about him and trying to figure him out. He's creepy and whether or not you're dating is none of his business whatsoever.

Last edited by applej3; 12-20-2016 at 09:11 PM..
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-21-2016, 04:51 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
12,335 posts, read 17,205,396 times
Reputation: 19573
He could not be more obvious about his intentions. His wife doesn't notice this? Keep an eye on this guy.

I have a close male friend and don't even grill him over beers on whos hes dating.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Non-Romantic Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:53 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top