What is the worst thing a sibling has done to you? (husbands, sister)
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My brothers wife didn't like our family so she made up some crap how we were all racist so my brother would stop talking to us. My brother is white, she is African American. None of us are racist! I had even got her a job at one point! He didn't talk to me or saw his nieces for 5 years. He also didn't talk to our mom. Finally he started talking to us again. Never apologized though until his divorce.
My sister was a thief, she stole countless items from my brother and me over the years. Worst she did was to have kids when she heard someone else in the family was pregnant, then leave my parents to raise them as she was not responsible enough to do so.
My older sister tried to drown me when I was a toddler.... Twice
Once in a toilet
Once my bio mom told the sitter to not let us out of her sight. Sitter went inside for a quick minute and came back out to see my sister holding me under water in one of those blow up, single ring, kiddie swimming pools.
She didn't like having a little sister. Still doesn't like me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Sounds like she needed to be put in a straight jacket and locked up and had the key thrown away.
There's a special place reserved in the 10th level of hell for some of these piece borrible siblings on here. I'm so sorry that some of you have gone through this. I hope those with severe cases are seeing a counselor and have cut those people out of your life.
If there is anything that I would like to say is that I am indeed grateful that I have five other siblings by the same mother. I am the last born child totaling six children.
My eldest brother as I've always known him to be, a selfish individual most of his life. He had legally been made the medical proxy and sole decision maker of my mother when she became sick; resulting in her rehabilitation taking place in nursing facilities while being in and out of the hospital. As the last of six I did my best to encourage my brother to fulfill the necessary duties of a proxy as I had gotten involved in scheduling appointments for surgeries, talking to social workers, nurses, medical doctors, and law offices to try to get my mother well enough to come home as she desired. Medical doctors and social services confirmed at a particular point that she was well enough to return home and were willing to begin proceedings. My brother wouldn't have any of it. He just simply withdrew and refused to answer his phone when I tried to coordinate family meetings for discussions for her rehabilitation. All processes became delayed.
It has been almost two years now. My mother has passed (never made it back home) and I go through life being a lot less vocal toward him if not at all. Two days ago I celebrated my 31st birthday and I thought only of her. I miss her very much. Makes me not want to have children of my own.
My younger brother setup blogs, websites and used my personal family pictures and posted them anonymously citing all kind of crazy and false information online. He even got some women to post a video about me saying how I cheated on her and got her pregnant and then left. When my wife's family saw that video I had hard time convincing them that was a big lie. I haven't seen that woman in my life.
My wedding pictures were posted online with details outlining how dangerous and psycho I am. Pages and pages full of false information available to anyone who would search my name online. People at work and friends started talking about it. People who knew me were confident that I couldn't do all these horrendous things. However, people who didn't know me started avoiding me. Went through a tough period in my marriage because of that. Filed a lawsuit against John Doe to find out who did it, there wasn't enough proof because all this was done via computers and proxies overseas. Defamation law suit cost me thousand of dollars.
It felt like the laws weren't in favor of ordinary citizen. Only the rich or someone who had cash like the celebrities could win in this situation. The lawyers and defamation management companies exploited me. After years of paying $$, all they got was an ip address of the facebook account and Microsoft email. It was very expensive and slow process. Finally, I gave up because I couldnt afford it any more. Hired a company to post positive information about me and eventually the good stuff came up in searches but still even today the negative information is available. Google and microsoft won't remove that malicious info claiming freedom of speech. Offcourse, its been 3+ years and I and my brother don't talk anymore...Worst part is that I told my parents that they talk to him and get me compensated for the $$ that I lost from my kids tuition fund but they weren't of much help either
If I am going to post that sort of past pain and nonsense here...I may as well just sit down and write a book. It would be a best seller... that's all I gotta say.
Koale
My brother has spoken to me only once in the last 35 years. He has missed out entirely on his 3 nephews' growing up. He has no wife no kids and i am his only sibling. He ignores all letters and attempts at contact. He is now 60 years old. He submitted documents against me to a judge during custody proceedings which were appalling. My ex husband had violated our custody agreement. The very stern judge actually held up what my brother had submitted and said 'This is ridiculous' and physically tossed it aside in addition to throwing it out of court.
This is awful. I imagine my sibling acting like I don't exist would be the most hurtful thing ever.
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