What is the worst thing a sibling has done to you? (husband, children)
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Once I slammed a door in my younger brother's face. His forehead hit the doorknob, he was bleeding everywhere and had to get stitches. He still has a scar.
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My older sister tried to drown me when I was a toddler.... Twice
Once in a toilet
Once my bio mom told the sitter to not let us out of her sight. Sitter went inside for a quick minute and came back out to see my sister holding me under water in one of those blow up, single ring, kiddie swimming pools.
She didn't like having a little sister. Still doesn't like me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
hum..
my younger brother got a DUI.. he didn't have a license on him and he used my name instead of his because he already had a couple DUIs and didn't even have a valid license at the time..
Of course all of this was news to me when i went to get my license renewed, the lady behind the counter, whisper as if not to embarrass me.. 'you can't get your license.. you have a dui'! WTF!?!@#$@#
So, i made some calls, went down to the sheriffs office and he pulls out this mug shot and says, nope.. that's not YOU.. so do you know who this is? it was my brother.. The officer said that it was not uncommon. I had to get a letter from the mayor, exonerating me, so that i get my license back.. The officer also told me that they likely will NOT go after my brother but that he better hope he never gets pulled over in town again!
That was some 20 years ago and I have since forgiven my brother but for a few year there, he was a real piece of work!
For me, that would have to be when my sister (and her husband) falsely accused my daughter of being "inappropriate" with their older daughter. There are many reasons I could list as to why this was the "worst thing" a sibling has done to me, but just to list the main ones:
- My sister & her husband wanted "Holly" be to be taken from my custody, put in a juvenile detention center, and be forced to register as a sex offender.
- "Holly's" already-bad anxiety issues shot through the roof with having to deal with this situation, and she tried to commit suicide because she was terrified of going to jail over something she had not done.
- the last time we were in court over this, my brother-in-law wasn't physically present, but he did get to have his say via speakerphone. He blabbed on and on about all this stuff that had NOTHING to do with the alleged situation, took stuff about "Holly" out of context, and because of how the legal process works, I couldn't say anything in response.
My sister died in a car crash, that made the rest of the family to follow - mother, grandma, fater, - and in 5 years, at 34, I was a head of a family. Horrible feeling, it made me harsh, stiffnecked, cold, noncompassionate, and bitter.
After my parents died my brother was in charge of executing the wills and trusts. Both of us inherited a bit of money and my children did too. There were also a few pieces of furniture and art that were supposed to be split between us. Everything was split between the two of us and our kids. My kids were in college and needed the money. My brother refused to execute the will, for years. He just wouldn't give us any of the money and all got all huffy if we asked about it. We had to hire lawyers in two different states. He hired lawyers to fight us, without any explanation for why he wouldn't simply do what the will said he should do. Our lawyers thought it was the strangest case ever because we weren't asking for anything other than the what the Will said. I think it was about five years and our lawyers finally asked the court in his state for a hearing to force him to execute the will. His state is about 8 hours from our house. We got ready to go, although I dreaded it. At the last minute, the day before the hearing, my brother gave in and said he would execute the will and the trusts for the kids. Get this, he hasn't spoken to us since. Somehow it us who did wrong. Go figure.
At this point I couldn't care less if he ever speaks to us again. He's a jerk who hurt my kids because he refused to do what he legally had to do and without any reason for it. He's a control freak and I'm glad he's out of our lives.
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