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FYI, I worked 2 jobs simultaneously. 1 as marketing and the other as an event manager. Mind you in a GCC country so you're well aware of the cost. The university we were in was mediocre and I had spent quite a sum, but as I've mentioned I didn't care about the money. It was never abot that.
This sounds like an extended group of dysfunctional people with widely disparate goals. The most normal people could hope for is that they avoid injuring each other physically. There is no logic present within the circle of people as described.
Wow I guess this was for real, since you posted about it twice.
1. That was your girlfriend, and you were both in denial.
2. Your ex-girlfriend has REAL, serious, deep issues accepting her own sexuality, and they played out on you.
3. You have a lot of post-trauma stuff going on that needs to get sorted out.
4. The two of your respective issues interact with each other is very bad ways. You form a feedback loop of dysfunction.
It's hard to let go of any kind of deep connection. That said, all deep connections are not good for you and part of adulthood is learning to accept that. Let go of her, go no contact. It's painful but necessary. You are not compatible as friends or "friends".
You are not the first or the last to have to do this. But it can be done.
Get a therapist and get to work on yourself. One day you'll find another person you connect with who actually brings out the best in you.
Can someone please explain what was the possible cause of her behavior?
Re read what you wrote. Most people would not want to be in that situation.
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And am I wrong in this?
Yes. Sounds like a total nightmare. I have had women in my life in the past that were a total trainwreck like both of you seem to be.
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I just miss my bestfriend.
Sounds like a horribly toxic situation. Anytime that a friendship or relationship turns violent and especially when the police are involved it's not good for either of you. She did you a big favor by going away. You need to get counseling and try to understand why you would want to be in such a turbulent situation and deal with your alcoholism.
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