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My younger sister, myself, and our respective spouses and children went on our first family vacation a few days ago. She lost a lot of weight and looks amazing. I've gained some weight and although I'm not fat by any means, I could stand to lose 20 pounds. Once we arrived, she approached me with a three pack of granny panties saying, "I bought these and they are way too big for me. You want them? I tried on a pair but I'm not sure which one but I washed them so they are clean. Here."
I took them, pretended to be grateful, and immediately decided to throw them away. So many thoughts raced through my mind in that millisecond. Not only was I grossed out, I was insulted. First of all, she implied that I was fat which I'm not. Then there's the gross factor. Who wears someone else's used panties? Then she implied that I'm poor and although she is now better off financially than me, I can certainly afford my own panties! Lastly, granny panties aren't my style. I have always worn thongs and G-strings. We have had detailed conversations about that. So apparently she either doesn't remember my style or doesn't care. Grrr
My younger sister, myself, and our respective spouses and children went on our first family vacation a few days ago. She lost a lot of weight and looks amazing. I've gained some weight and although I'm not fat by any means, I could stand to lose 20 pounds. Once we arrived, she approached me with a three pack of granny panties saying, "I bought these and they are way too big for me. You want them? I tried on a pair but I'm not sure which one but I washed them so they are clean. Here."
I took them, pretended to be grateful, and immediately decided to throw them away. So many thoughts raced through my mind in that millisecond. Not only was I grossed out, I was insulted. First of all, she implied that I was fat which I'm not. Then there's the gross factor. Who wears someone else's used panties? Then she implied that I'm poor and although she is now better off financially than me, I can certainly afford my own panties! Lastly, granny panties aren't my style. I have always worn thongs and G-strings. We have had detailed conversations about that. So apparently she either doesn't remember my style or doesn't care. Grrr
You've had detailed conversations with your sister over your preference for thongs?? lolol
Please don't make this into family drama. Toss the underwear and forget about it. Don't read into it.
Just because she passed along something that she couldn't use, that doesn't mean that she was implying you are poor. That's a reach. People pass things to one another (rather than throwing them away and creating waste) all the time.
If you don't want them, do whatever you want with them. Throw them away if you wish. But stop assuming what she meant by it. You're projecting your own insecurities.
Wow. I think you might be overreacting a tad. But thanks for sharing your taste in sexy underwear with all on C-D. I'm sure it wasn't to titillate the male virgins!
There is a lot of background behind my hurt feelings, part of which involved my distress over my quarantine related weight gain and my wife and I going on furlough. We were only able to get the condo through a rock bottom veteran's discount. Her husband is doing very well with his business which has caused her to flaunt their newfound wealth. I'm happy for her, truly, but it's the attitude of smug superiority and the bragging about her money that is bothering me.
She tried them on for probably 30 seconds max and washed them. I don’t know how that is any grosser than buying a bathing suit from the store that multiple people have likely tried on before you. It is not like the sticker is really going to provide a high level of protection if the person or people trying on the suit is wearing an itsy bitsy thong underneath.
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