If you're specifically interested in the coastal part of the state, you should read and post in the
Coastal NC forum.
You say you asked a "lot of questions" but actually you have barely scratched the surface. You do know that NC is a large and
diverse state, and is very different in the mountains than near the coast, or in the urban areas vs the country. We have a little of everything ehre, but you haven't given much info except "near the coast" as to what is possibly drawing you here.
NC unemployment overall is quite high (higher than NY) but it depends on location and industry, just like anywhere.
I would suggest you perusing the Coastal forum first, look into Wilmington or Greenville, which are the largest cities near the coasst. You also might check into Norfolk/Virginia Beach, VA or Myrtle Beach, SC, which are both on the coast and substantially larger cities than anywhere on the NC coast (thus most likely to have hospitality jobs). If you get out a map of NC, you can see all of this and what's near/not near the coast.