19 yo told me that she is sexually active

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Originally Posted by UNC4Me

Take a deep breath and....
Be thankful she trusts you enough to be truthful. Be thankful she and her BF are being safe. Be thankful she's in a committed relationship and isn't just "hooking up" with random guys. Be thankful she's focused on her future and realizes kids are a commitment she wants to delay until the time is right.

+1
It is actually great if she waited THAT long! Many people don't
(I myself was already married at 19, many of women back in the days (or other countries now) were, too.

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Originally Posted by EvilCookie

Being sexually active at 19 in a 2.5 year relationship is really to be expected...I'd say only those with deep religious or other beliefs would remain abstinent in that situation. As long as she's responsible, it's all good.

yep!