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keep notes about this event because if it happens again i would take him back to court so he knows you mean business. I would be furious and so worried. if she is having fun or not is not the issue. it is your right as a mother to know where your daughter is and who is caring for her. obviously you thought so at one time or you wouldn't have had it written up the way it is.
I say choose your battle wisely- Court is no fun, I don't care what anybody says!
This one I would simply record, and write down- I would mention it to him, however I would not go to court over this issue alone, especially since you beleive she is safe wherever she is anyway
I wrote everything down, dates, times of the calls to family members who could not help me, screenshots of messages I had to send on Facebook, just to be able to get in touch with her.
I'm going to save all of that if needed in the future, and simply remind him his responsibility. Next time it happens, off to court we go.
I hate to be the one to tell you, but during the father's custodial time he can place the child in the care of others without permission from you. I understand you have the little thing written in y'all's agreement but it doesn't look like 48 hours had passed. In any case, the first thing the judge will do is look at the amount of time that has passed since it was written (rules for a child of 5yo won't always apply for a child of 10) or tell the father "you shouldn't have gone against the agreement". No jail time, no fire and brimstone, no justification of how the mother should have all control over actions involving the child.
I wouldn't sweat this too much.... she was hanging out with her cousins while under the custody of her father. He knew where she was an she she was with. It may have taken him time to give you the # because he wanted to verify it was okay to give you someone else's number.... not to be secretive. Do you notify him of every time you switch plans involving his daughter or have to get his permission to let her go to a play date or sleepover?
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