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Old 06-04-2015, 07:26 AM
 
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He probably knows and suspects that you are the type that would spy on him. WHAT TO DO? Leave the dang boy alone.

All boys search for porn. All boys will go on websites and flirt with girls (or other guys if they're gay - whatever). Don't talk to him. Don't punish him or suspect that he'll turn into a gangster thugging coke head. He won't. Give him some privacy.

If he is under 16, you could put parental controls on to block most porn sites/illegal sites. But don't put a keylogger on or talk to him.

Its not like you've never looked up porn either.. sheesh. And I'm 99% sure that's what he is concerned about. He doesn't want you or mom knowing what kind of porn he looks at.

IF YOU DO TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS: he will only put his guard up against you and mom even more. In essence, you'll push him away and make him feel MORE of a need to hide himself from you two. Let him explore his developing feelings and leave him be.
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Old 06-04-2015, 10:24 AM
 
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Not even the best-behaved kids in the world want their parents knowing what they research on the internet, no matter how harmless.

But it could have been nothing your kid did - I get crazy suggestions from Google's autofill all the time, and I'm the only person using my computer.
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Old 06-04-2015, 10:32 AM
 
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Not if your logged into your Gmail/Google+ account.
I'm logged in and it does it.

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Old 06-04-2015, 10:39 AM
 
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My son and I sometimes use the same pc. I was typing "how do i know" into google & it suggested the recent search done by him: "how do i know if there is a keylogger on my pc".

He is 15 and has been a good kid but this made me nervous.

And BTW, no, I haven't put a keylogger on his PC.


Do you think my wife and I should be worried? What to do? (I haven't told her yet since she is a huge worrier!)

Thanks,

Laz
No great mystery here. He doesn't want you to know what he's typing into the computer. Welcome to parenting teens!
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Old 06-04-2015, 11:21 AM
 
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Some people don't like to be spied on, even if they are doing nothing wrong. (Government, take the hint.)
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Old 06-04-2015, 11:30 AM
 
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I'm logged in and it does it.
Yes. The wording of my post was bad. I meant to say it DOES happen if you are logged in.
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Old 06-04-2015, 11:39 AM
 
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Yes. The wording of my post was bad. I meant to say it DOES happen if you are logged in.
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Old 06-04-2015, 12:34 PM
 
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double naught spy!
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Old 06-04-2015, 03:55 PM
 
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He is cleaning out the Billions you have on deposit in the Cayman's as we speak.
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Old 06-04-2015, 05:31 PM
 
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It doesn't always work. I wouldn't be worried, he is likely worried you are snooping on him is all.
..and you are, so he is not so dumb!
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