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You're going to need proof of all this. You can't just take them away or restrict visitation. In the court's eyes, you chose to have 3 kids with him so you thought he was a good person at that point. To change that is going to require a lawyer, and proof.
So, he was a good father and nice for the first two kids? Then turned bad on the third? Or was he ****ty on the first and you figured he just didn't like this one so lets make two more and see how the ******* likes the new ones?
You should have come for advice 5 years ago and asked "Should I have children, who are a lifetime of commitment to raise-nuture-feed-clothe and teach, with a man who is disrespectful and calls me ********"?
Go to an attorney make up horrible stories of emotional and physical abuse get a restraining order, get an order of protection, get an order for him to leave the residence, and serve him with divorce papers. That's the American way.
Sorry, but I did not see that he actually WANTS to see his kids or be with them very much. (Some men don't.)
If he doesn't want to see them, then I don't think you will have a problem if you divorce him, which I think you should. If he is young and has no patience, he might actually view them as a hindrance to his "social life."
If he does want to see them, and you have full custody, get a divorce and do whatever it takes to move far away from him because from what you describe, his yelling and cussing at them IS abuse, and your kids will suffer for it, and so will you.
And PLEASE get on some very reliable birth control, if you are not already on it!
And, btw, how he behaves is NOT how good men and father behave. Not at all. Both you and your kids deserve much better than that.
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