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Originally Posted by JanND
I think you should listen to your girlfriend. Since your older daughter is the oldest, she needs her own room.
Your child will adjust, I doubt she'll be woken up, the other lil girl can learn to occupy herself quietly.
I'm more concerned about your preferential treatment of your daughters over your girlfriends daughter. Long term that is very detrimental to the child...and yours and your girlfriends relationship...not to mention how modeling this is detrimental to all 3 girls. You might want to decide you need to be proactive in loving this lil one..a year and a half is a long time to be treated "less than" Step up
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Sorry, I could have put this in a nicer way, you probably don't intend to come across as though you feel preferential to your bio girls, but imo you are doing so.
Give some thought to how you can integrate all 3 in your lives. And are you intending this living together to become "marriage" and truly a blended family....if so, blend a bit more. Less "my" and more "our" is essential imo...for the sake of those 3 lil girls.