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Originally Posted by annabanana123
I can't imagine leaving a child without asking the other mom. Our son goes over to neighbors' homes and plays with other kids all the time. I watch him and check with the other parent if I want to run to the store or take the dog around the block first. They do the same with us. It's not a big unusual for our 3 yr old neighbor to come over with his bigger brother on their own but they are 2 houses down and mom always checks first. Super easy and sweet kid.
We all help each other out. In that scenario I'd say something like "can you check in before you leave your house if she's over here please? I need to know there's an adult there in case something were to happen." or "I'm happy to watch her today, is there any way you can watch my daughter tomorrow so I can run to the store?" You may be able to work out some sort of mutually beneficial system with that mom if you can get to know and trust her. If you don't trust her though obviously don't leave your daughter with her.
Good luck!
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I do know her as we've owned this home for a few years. For the first couple of years, we were waving neighbors. We'd wave if we saw each other. We rented our house out for a period of time and when we moved back in Mary was around 1 1/2. We started to move beyond waving neighbors and we would chit chat and then we along with another neighbor started to plan cul-de-sac parties.
I do trust her but I have no interest in watching Mary for mom to run her errands. I schedule my grocery runs around if my husband is home or not. If he's not then the kids come and if they really don't want to go then I will wait for my DH to get home and I will go alone.
I think it has to do more with Mary's age that I have no interest in watching her. If the kids were the same age or closer in age it would be different.