My Girlfriend has a 9YO daughter

[phonelady61]

Yep im on the walk away team say goodbye because you will always be put on hold so to speak until this little girl is 18 and on her own and even then mom will always make daughter a priority . Nope walk away .

[TXNGL]

Originally Posted by phonelady61

Yep im on the walk away team say goodbye because you will always be put on hold so to speak until this little girl is 18 and on her own and even then mom will always make daughter a priority . Nope walk away .

Daughter should be the priority. She's 9 years old in the original post. When the child no longer becomes the priority to mom because boyfriend is jealous of the parent/child relationship while mom is trying to step away to take care of her child, it ends up on either Dr. Phil or tragically on the evening news.

[stan4]

Originally Posted by G-fused

For the sake of the LG step back. If you would take a bullet for her then at least step back for her and for your GF, who of course prioritizes her daughter but likely a bit conflicted about things with wanting to be with you. I think you should prioritize the LG over your relationship with her mom.

Best of luck.

I agree.
I think you have good intentions but your relationship with the mom should not be a priority and she needs to focus on this kid (whose life has been dumped upside down).