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So... my daughter and her ex have a parenting plan. My daughter is the sole custodian, and makes all medical decisions. Ex ONLY has visitation (because he told the judge originally that he was only meant to be a very very very part time parent).
Ex continually disregards the parenting plan (giving child non emergency medicine without consulting with my daughter), not allowing child to video chat with my daughter during his weekend (parenting plan states that either parent MUST allow child to video chat) and had his new girlfriend insert rectal suppositories in child, for constipation (supposedly child didnt poop for one day).
WHAT does my daughter need to file in order for him to adhere to the parenting plan? Child comes back to her crying, afraid to poop, wetting her panties and emotionally shattered. (like... crying jags about her tummy and her butt hurting so badly)
Yeah, or maybe none until she sees a doctor. I would take her immediately to the pediatrician to confirm that it is only suppositories causing these new symptoms.
Based on the behavior you have described, I would be very concerned about possible molestation.
Yeah, or maybe none until she sees a doctor. I would take her immediately to the pediatrician to confirm that it is only suppositories causing these new symptoms.
Based on the behavior you have described, I would be very concerned about possible molestation.
Has your daughter met the girlfriend?
Ok.. I was thinking along the same lines...
We have both met the new girlfriend - and arent impressed (she told child 'Im going to be your new mommy' and child was soooo upset).
Daughter took child to pediatrician last week after the suppository incident - but pediatrician didnt see anything to be concerned about... however, daughter and I are now VERY watchful for everything. I think she is making an appointment with a child psych. to chat with child.
We have both met the new girlfriend - and arent impressed (she told child 'Im going to be your new mommy' and child was soooo upset).
Daughter took child to pediatrician last week after the suppository incident - but pediatrician didnt see anything to be concerned about... however, daughter and I are now VERY watchful for everything. I think she is making an appointment with a child psych. to chat with child.
I would be in no hurry to send her back over there.
I would be in no hurry to send her back over there.
The issue is...
She didnt allow her to go to her dads during covid... (long story) short version - he told my daughter that he was exposed to covid.. and (again) couldnt take child for his parenting weekend. He then stopped paying child support. Since she was getting no child support she had to work... - but then the daycare closed. So I have been taking care of child since end of March. But I am health compromised - (as is my daughters live in firance - he just rec'd a kidney a couple months ago) - but ex wouldnt quarantine (he says covid is a crock etc etc) -so daughter said its too risky to send child to him.
He took her to court and was granted makeup parenting time. So she cant NOT send child or she will be contempt of the new court orders.
She has another appt tomorrow with the pediatrician.. and explained what was going on. Pediatrician is VERY concerned that ex is giving child suppositories without consulting a doctor. (and then this last weekend.. from what we can figure out from what child said.. we think he gave her an enema). So.. daughter is going to the appt and then going to the courthouse to file for supervised visitation - AND going to chat with CPS.
The apparent obsession with her bowel habits is disturbing, among other things. And frankly having all these live-in SOs everywhere she goes is not the best situation for this child.
The issue is...
She didnt allow her to go to her dads during covid... (long story) short version - he told my daughter that he was exposed to covid.. and (again) couldnt take child for his parenting weekend. He then stopped paying child support. Since she was getting no child support she had to work... - but then the daycare closed. So I have been taking care of child since end of March. But I am health compromised - (as is my daughters live in firance - he just rec'd a kidney a couple months ago) - but ex wouldnt quarantine (he says covid is a crock etc etc) -so daughter said its too risky to send child to him.
He took her to court and was granted makeup parenting time. So she cant NOT send child or she will be contempt of the new court orders.
She has another appt tomorrow with the pediatrician.. and explained what was going on. Pediatrician is VERY concerned that ex is giving child suppositories without consulting a doctor. (and then this last weekend.. from what we can figure out from what child said.. we think he gave her an enema). So.. daughter is going to the appt and then going to the courthouse to file for supervised visitation - AND going to chat with CPS.
Not pooping for one day is grounds for a suppository?
I echo what others here have stated that I would be very suspicious of molestation and would go back to court to seek supervised visitation.
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