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Old 05-15-2015, 03:40 PM
 
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op sounds like a girl who couldn't get hired into one of these places...boo hoo
What an inane, thoughtless comment.
I wouldn't have the slightest interest at a place like that, men ogling my body all the while their girlfriends and wives by their side. I imagine it would be uncomfortable. I would be unhappy in any work that cheapens me, reducing my worth as a human being to my sexual appeal. I actually have past experience as a camgirl, and it had dire consequences on the way that I identified myself, the way I viewed men in general, and upon my ability to enjoy sex.
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:01 PM
 
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What an inane, thoughtless comment.
I wouldn't have the slightest interest at a place like that, men ogling my body all the while their girlfriends and wives by their side. I imagine it would be uncomfortable. I would be unhappy in any work that cheapens me, reducing my worth as a human being to my sexual appeal. I actually have past experience as a camgirl, and it had dire consequences on the way that I identified myself, the way I viewed men in general, and upon my ability to enjoy sex.
Do you think that if you had never been a camgirl, you'd feel the same way on this topic?
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:10 PM
 
Location: South Texas
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I've decided to ban restaurants that only hire young, attractive female servers and put them in skimpy outfits. If restaurant owners choose to cater expressly to men's sexual desire during their hiring process, not only are they seeking to profit off womens' objectification, but female customers' comfort levels are not respected.
OP: Are you equally offended by Tallywackers?
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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...I actually have past experience as a camgirl, and it had dire consequences on the way that I identified myself, the way I viewed men in general, and upon my ability to enjoy sex.
Then maybe you do need to stay away from those types of restaurants.
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Tucson for awhile longer
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When you say "ban restaurants," I assume you mean "boycott." I don't think you'd get very far with any bill to ban them. If you want to boycott ANY firm that you believe objectifies females, I have no problem with that; I generally do it myself.
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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Well then, I must be more evolved, because I have never understood cliques, school dances (just a mating ritual), peoples' aggression over a ball game, and so forth. People are primates and we've evolved from apes, but we are equipped with mental acuity, or at least the capacity to possess it. We are enabled to recognize primal instincts and reject them in favour of a more sophisticated, gentle, and self-aware manner.
You are giving me a great idea for a new character for South Park, sort of a female foil to Terence and Philip, or a Canadian version of Wendy Testaburger...
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Old 05-15-2015, 04:50 PM
 
Location: On the bus.
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I guess the OP should just become a hermit. I see women in bars, stores, walking around town, all looking good and dressed sexy. And not being paid for it....imagine that. On top of that, my wife will point out a real looker if by chance I miss her. It's amazing what being secure with yourself and your relationship will do. Eye candy is just a simple pleasure of life, and yes for both sexes. This far out weighs the lardo's who squeeze 250 lbs. in a size 7 spandex with a belly shirt.
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Old 05-15-2015, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Ft. Myers
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Lol...never met a lesbian who actually goes to those places.

Oh, I have !! I worked with a pretty , young lady who would go to Hooters occasionally, and she hardly ever went home alone. Her roommate, who also worked with us, would tell us stories about their little adventures.


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Old 05-15-2015, 11:39 PM
 
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When you say "ban restaurants," I assume you mean "boycott." I don't think you'd get very far with any bill to ban them. If you want to boycott ANY firm that you believe objectifies females, I have no problem with that; I generally do it myself.
Oops, thanks for correcting me
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Old 05-15-2015, 11:41 PM
 
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Is anyone here supposed to care? Or did you just want to visit the internet to complain about something that essentially nobody cares about under the false assumption that someone would sympathize with your incessant rambling?

I don't believe in god, jesus, or any of that crap, so I don't go to church. Guess how many complete strangers I've decided to share that with on a website?
Why are you even on this forum? You must enjoy "incessant rambling" yourself. Further, why did you even click on my thread? I will assume feel better about yourself. Pat yourself on the back.
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