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Old 11-11-2012, 05:57 AM
 
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Old 11-11-2012, 06:34 AM
 
Location: By the sea, by the sea, by the beautiful sea
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For the same reasons men complain about their male bosses?
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Old 11-11-2012, 06:36 AM
 
Location: Too far from home.
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I have worked for both - the good and bad men and women. Given the choice, I would take a man over a woman. What I didn't care about working for women was that I wasn't paid to be their "friend" nor was I interested in their personal life which they thought they needed to share. That's what a hair stylist is for.
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Old 11-11-2012, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Whoville....
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I have worked for both - the good and bad men and women. Given the choice, I would take a man over a woman. What I didn't care about working for women was that I wasn't paid to be their "friend" nor was I interested in their personal life which they thought they needed to share. That's what a hair stylist is for.
I have to admit female bosses do talk more about their personal lives but women do this in general. As a woman, I prefer a female boss. You know where you stand with her. If a woman is sharing details about her personal life, you're in good shape. I can never read men. I got a glowing PR just before I was terminated from my engineering job. Go figure. I would have seen it coming with a woman. She would have pulled back as soon as that decision was made. I had no idea with my male boss. I had no idea until the actual day I was let go.
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Old 11-11-2012, 06:52 AM
 
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A good boss is a good boss no matter his/her gender.
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Old 11-11-2012, 07:09 AM
 
Location: Too far from home.
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I have to admit female bosses do talk more about their personal lives but women do this in general. As a woman, I prefer a female boss. You know where you stand with her. If a woman is sharing details about her personal life, you're in good shape. I can never read men. I got a glowing PR just before I was terminated from my engineering job. Go figure. I would have seen it coming with a woman. She would have pulled back as soon as that decision was made. I had no idea with my male boss. I had no idea until the actual day I was let go.
Yeah, I guess women are more open. I remember when I worked for a female attorney (just out of college) and she told me she would have me fired, see me on the street and make sure I didn't get another job and there was nothing I could do and there was nothing HR could do to her because she was black. I took that threat to HR and they addressed it. They moved her to another location in the firm and found her a job with a client (I guess they didn't care if they lost the business - she was well worth getting rid of). Working in a law firm gives you the opportunity to move around within the firm and you generally know the reputations of lawyers. But she was unknown, but known very quickly!!!!

I was a social person, but not a friendly person, when I worked. I got along with people, but not involved. My attitude was that I was getting paid to do a job, not to make friends. Apparently it's an unusual position for one to take because I was called into HR on three occasions over a 9 year period when co-workers complained about me not being "friendly". Go figure.
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Old 11-11-2012, 07:25 AM
 
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For the same reasons men complain about their male bosses?
I would say that this pretty much sums it up. Thread's over. All can move on now.
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Old 11-11-2012, 07:45 AM
 
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Both genders can be good bosses but they both have to control their hormones if they want to be good bosses.
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Old 11-11-2012, 08:29 AM
 
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I have worked for both - the good and bad men and women. Given the choice, I would take a man over a woman. What I didn't care about working for women was that I wasn't paid to be their "friend" nor was I interested in their personal life which they thought they needed to share. That's what a hair stylist is for.
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Old 11-11-2012, 09:21 AM
 
Location: DC area
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why do most females complain about their female bosses and prefer to work for men?
According to whom? Your own anecdotal evidence?
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