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Originally Posted by steven_h
And the beat goes on... isn't there a different drum you'd like to hit?
It isn't just more though... Don't you think youre watering it down just a bit? I love when someone is partially truthful as if a small oversight is enough to qualify a response as honest. The truth is that the average is spread over all the men who were surveyed. The horn dogs (as you say) could have as many as 3-500 partners in their lifetimes. Yes, that is addictive and the lifestyle itself is behavioral.
Women have less partners regardless of gender preference. My rebuttal was to a man, so I directed that toward the gender rather than homosexuality as a whole for simplicities sake. How many other ways could you dilute this conversation with at this point?
We are at the same divide that straights and gays always seem to end up at. My view won't change and neither will yours, but at least I'm honest enough to express that you have the right to be yourself regardless of how you feel my view is wrong. On the other hand, I get the feeling that not only must I accept your lifestyle but that I should also approve, embrace and naturalize it. I have yet to hear that you understand how I could feel the way I do.
So, who is tolerating who at this point?
Would you prefer this;
Unfortunately God decided to build two uniquely seperate bodies who's function to procreate depends entirely on using them as they were built. How absurd that anyone should think this is normal. Because the Bible expresses this, anyone should be ashamed to believe in it let alone read it, and the Bible publishers should be sued for spreading such a hocus pokus pile of nonsense.
Is that a more satisfying response for you?
Cheers
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you're welcome to your opinion... I'm just trying to show you that it is not accurate. I am gay and I would not be classified in your "slutty" statistic... I have a partner for 4 years now.. so think what you want.. but just don't make broad assumptions and label everyone. I'm not here to change your mind.. I'm just presenting my view of things for the sake of insight. But what does a gay person know about gays? I'm sure you've got it all figured out..
you cannot label an entire group.. That's like saying straight people sleep around a lot because Madonna who is straight claims to have slept with 1800 people. I mean where's personal accountability.. It's like saying because most the people in jail are african american, that african american's are prone to criminal behavior because it's part of their "blackness" The problems in the gay community have very little to do with who and how many people they're sleeping with... it has to do with self hating and self destructive behavoirs... It isn't their homosexuality that is the root of it.. it's their lifestyles and behaviors and choices regarding what they actually have a choice in. Just because you're gay.. doesn't mean you go out and snort coke and have sex with 10 people in one night...There's plenty of straight people that can and do go off and conduct themselves in such behavior.. It certainly isn't because they are straight or their straightness that makes them choose such behavior as well...I'm not arguing that the gay community is flawless and without personal blame, but I'm not about to let someone like you make it out to be the evils of their gayness and "choice" to be gay that is the root of it all....because the homosexual attraction is NOT a choice.. how you wish to conduct yourself is... and that is why I support gay marriage.. and anything that makes gay's accountable in society.. That way there is no excuse for being disgusting and involved in all kinds of deplorable behavior, and also, so that nay sayers like you can no longer sit on a high horse and condemn them by such actions out of self loathing and lack of self respect. Where it sits now.. people like you can always just point your finger and say.. LOOK what they do.. look at them.. aren't they gross... Many people do the same with other minority groups.. and it isn't right... or logical..
I'm not going to sit here and convince you otherwise.. because you seem to be the straight man with all the answers to gay issues..I'm sure it's just crystal clear from your point of view... you can sum it all up in a nutshell.. so.. have at it...
good luck mate!
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