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Hi! I'm new in this forum I joined because I want to know what people think about this cause in my opinion it's so extremely weird and I cant fully comprehend what's going on... I saw an old thread from 2012 but the situation is kinda different here.
I have a "friend" who's a full grown 32 years old man. He finished high school but didnt go to college. He lives with his parents and LOVES toys, we're not talking about you know collectibles that an adult might like we're taking full Disney, princess TOYS. Not cars or "boys toys".. DOLLS. And not only he likes them but he plays with them, he created a full instagram where he takes pictures of Barbie kissing his new Ken doll with comments like: barbie and Ken love each other so much, ken thinks barbie is wearing a beautiful dress today... *braids barbie's hair* .. ken says he loves barbie new hairstyle...
And stuff like that!
He loves carly jepsen the singer and uploads pictures of her saying he needs to go back to school to flirt with all the girls like carly, and how he wishes his parents would allow him to go back to school.
He says hes been trying to look for adult church classes where he can meet girls and flirt, cause he wants to get married and have kids. But he never leaves his house he says how afraid he is to go out and people finding out he likes dolls.
Tell me how is this "normal"? Like, he understands this is not normal behavior and what a 30 year old man should be doing.. hes not stupid hes not retarded he knows! But he still he stays at home all day watching tv with his parents and buying dolls on amazon and target... dont you guys think that's insane???
I'm not worried about the dolls... so what? (It's a little weird to post online about it, and a little misguided to be afraid other people will find out yet post about it online, but okay.)
The part that worries me is this:
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saying he needs to go back to school to flirt with all the girls like carly, and how he wishes his parents would allow him to go back to school.
which makes it sound like he wants to date minors (this is the biggest red flag), and the fact that he's afraid to leave his house/still lives with his parents tells me he needs help to become unafraid and independent.
Playing with dolls, while unusual for his age and gender, is completely harmless. I would be much more concerned about him being dependent on his parents and not working. Social phobias might also need therapy.
I'm not worried about the dolls... so what? (It's a little weird to post online about it, and a little misguided to be afraid other people will find out yet post about it online, but okay.)
The part that worries me is this:
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saying he needs to go back to school to flirt with all the girls like carly, and how he wishes his parents would allow him to go back to school.
which makes it sound like he wants to date minors (this is the biggest red flag), and the fact that he's afraid to leave his house/still lives with his parents tells me he needs help to become unafraid and independent.
Yeah, that's what I said in post #15. I'm glad someone finally agrees with me.
Even if he was to go out and meet people, what could their conversations possibly be about? Barbie & Ken and their next adventure, house or something!?!?! So nah, let him stay home with his mommy. We don't need him roaming these streets. Geez! Something definitely didn't launch with this poor soul.
I don't think he's likely to be a shooter either, but I agree that the "I want to flirt with high school girls" thing is creepy and concerning.
My prior posts were more focused on the toys/dolls. That nearly makes him sound like a "Little." While that in and of itself is weird to many people and creepy to probably most, at least there are others out there who are into that out there.
I've known a few adult males who were Barbie collectors (these men were gay, not that it matters) but they weren't that weird about it.
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