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Old 06-14-2023, 05:28 AM
 
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Who said it is Indian muslim?
what about Indian Hindu?
Traditional Indian wedding gift is GOLD !!!!!!!!
Dress nicely,you will have competition
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Old 06-14-2023, 05:54 PM
 
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I would love to attend an Indian/Pakistani wedding.
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Old 06-14-2023, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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An Indian Muslim wedding is a beautiful and culturally rich celebration that combines religious rituals and traditional customs. Here are some key pieces of advice to consider for an Indian Muslim wedding and reception:

1. Understand the customs: Familiarize yourself with the customs and rituals involved in an Indian Muslim wedding. This includes the Mehndi ceremony, the Nikah (marriage contract) ceremony, and the Walima (wedding reception). Respect and honor these traditions while planning your wedding events.
2. Dress code: Follow the Islamic dress code guidelines and choose appropriate attire for each ceremony. For the Nikah, the bride traditionally wears a bridal hijab or dupatta, while the groom typically wears a sherwani or traditional Islamic attire. Ensure that guests are aware of any specific dress code requirements.
3. Halal food: Ensure that all the food served during the wedding and reception is Halal, adhering to Islamic dietary guidelines. Work closely with caterers to plan a menu that caters to the diverse preferences of your guests.
4. Separate spaces: Consider having separate spaces for men and women during certain parts of the wedding events, such as the Nikah ceremony. This allows for a more comfortable environment and aligns with Islamic traditions.
5. Maintain modesty: While celebrating, it is important to maintain modesty in attire, behavior, and interactions. This reflects the Islamic values and creates an atmosphere of respect and dignity.
6. Seek guidance: Consult with an Islamic scholar or a knowledgeable person in your community to ensure that the wedding ceremonies and customs are conducted according to Islamic principles.

Remember, an Indian Muslim wedding is a sacred union celebrated with joy and reverence. By embracing the traditions, customs, and values of Islam, you can create a meaningful and memorable wedding and reception that honors your faith and culture.

The OP is attending an Indian wedding, not worrying about organizing and throwing one.

And I'm not sure about Hindu vs Muslim, but to all the Hindu Indian weddings I've been to so far, the dress is definitely NOT conservative. Dress to impress in Indian clothes style, Indian and western clothes styles mixed together, some wearing American dresses and suits, anything goes!
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Old 06-15-2023, 08:03 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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An Indian Muslim wedding is a beautiful and culturally rich celebration that combines religious rituals and traditional customs. Here are some key pieces of advice to consider for an Indian Muslim wedding and reception:

1. Understand the customs: Familiarize yourself with the customs and rituals involved in an Indian Muslim wedding. This includes the Mehndi ceremony, the Nikah (marriage contract) ceremony, and the Walima (wedding reception). Respect and honor these traditions while planning your wedding events.
2. Dress code: Follow the Islamic dress code guidelines and choose appropriate attire for each ceremony. For the Nikah, the bride traditionally wears a bridal hijab or dupatta, while the groom typically wears a sherwani or traditional Islamic attire. Ensure that guests are aware of any specific dress code requirements.
3. Halal food: Ensure that all the food served during the wedding and reception is Halal, adhering to Islamic dietary guidelines. Work closely with caterers to plan a menu that caters to the diverse preferences of your guests.
4. Separate spaces: Consider having separate spaces for men and women during certain parts of the wedding events, such as the Nikah ceremony. This allows for a more comfortable environment and aligns with Islamic traditions.
5. Maintain modesty: While celebrating, it is important to maintain modesty in attire, behavior, and interactions. This reflects the Islamic values and creates an atmosphere of respect and dignity.
6. Seek guidance: Consult with an Islamic scholar or a knowledgeable person in your community to ensure that the wedding ceremonies and customs are conducted according to Islamic principles.

Remember, an Indian Muslim wedding is a sacred union celebrated with joy and reverence. By embracing the traditions, customs, and values of Islam, you can create a meaningful and memorable wedding and reception that honors your faith and culture.
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Old 06-15-2023, 08:26 AM
 
Location: South Beach and DT Raleigh
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India's culture is religiously plural. I think it's a mistake to automatically presume that the wedding will be a particular religion without asking, if not already known.
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Old 06-15-2023, 08:44 AM
 
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I'm pretty sure the response was written by Chat GPT or a bot.
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Old 06-15-2023, 08:59 AM
 
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Who said it is Indian muslim?
what about Indian Hindu?
Traditional Indian wedding gift is GOLD !!!!!!!!
Dress nicely,you will have competition
And who said it was Muslim or Hindu?? They could be something else. My SIL's family are Christians. While the percentage is a lot lower, there are still millions of Christians in India (and many that have made the US there home).
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Old 06-15-2023, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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An honor.
Dress nicely.
Smile and speak to people.
Observe.
Expect to see some lovely clothes, particularly on the women.
Be complimentary. "Such a lovely day. Such a lovely gathering."

All pretty generic, yes. But... people are people and generally enjoy other nice people.
Sometimes generic advice fits perfectly.
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Old 06-15-2023, 10:49 AM
 
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And who said it was Muslim or Hindu?? They could be something else. My SIL's family are Christians. While the percentage is a lot lower, there are still millions of Christians in India (and many that have made the US there home).
Exactly! I used to work for two physicians, both from India. One was Hindu, the other Catholic.
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Old 06-15-2023, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, NC, formerly NoVA and Phila
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Unlikely that the wedding is Muslim since OP said there is 1.5 hours for cocktails. Traditional Muslims do not drink alcohol.
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