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I'm moving to Cary by summer of 2010 and am searching for LGBT-friendly physicians, dentists and other businesses to support. If anyone knows of a particular business or GOOD LGBT service directory I'd appreciate it. I've looked online and it appears there isn't much in that particular area.
(Also, please keep the lectures about why you think it's inappropriate to search for a gay doctor or dentist to yourself, thanks. I personally think it's a valid request on my part to find a gay-friendly medical professional because sometimes gay health issues come up and need to be discussed intelligently, and and I will not be scolded by yet another bigoted, southern medical physician who feels they're in a position to tell me I'm "wrongly" living my life. Yes, they really are out there...ugh. 'Nuff said.)
Raleigh is just opening a new GLBT Center which should have such resoucse lists. Formerly, there was a helpline under "Triangle Community Works". I can also put you on an e-list ofr GLBT events that comes out weekly, if you like.
Yes, ignore the ones who want to ***** about why one might want a doctor who understands his personal situation.
-Francois, native and Out in the local community for 30 years
Also, please keep the lectures about why you think it's inappropriate to search for a gay doctor or dentist to yourself, thanks
(Anyone else having problems inserting website links right now? I'm getting all kinds of weird results. Nothing seems to be working including INDENT, etc.)
I think you'll find some other discussions on this board if you search for LGBT or gay etc. I think there was a recent thread about gay friendly doctors. The website of Triangle Community Works, may not list a directory on their website, but I've been told if you call them, they might have some suggestions. I was considering a gay doctor in Cary but put off seeing them because they required a special visit before they would even start seeing you. It wasn't a physical exam, it was a visit just to say "Hi, who are you and what do you want?".
Keep in mind that not every doctor in NC is a flaming bigot. Yes there are some, but I challenge you to find me *any* part of the country that doesn't have someone with a hang up about LGBT patients.
I think we've already gone over the arguments about selecting or not selecting a LGBT provider. I know the board tries to keep things on topic (sort of), but it might help to lose the attitude. I'm gay but I didn't like your comment. It's off putting not just to people who have a problem with what you're asking, but to people who might want to help you. Unfortunately when you post on a board like this, you don't get to tell other people what their opinions should be or what they should write.
(Anyone else having problems inserting website links right now? I'm getting all kinds of weird results. Nothing seems to be working including INDENT, etc.)
I think you'll find some other discussions on this board if you search for LGBT or gay etc. I think there was a recent thread about gay friendly doctors. The website of Triangle Community Works, may not list a directory on their website, but I've been told if you call them, they might have some suggestions. I was considering a gay doctor in Cary but put off seeing them because they required a special visit before they would even start seeing you. It wasn't a physical exam, it was a visit just to say "Hi, who are you and what do you want?".
Keep in mind that not every doctor in NC is a flaming bigot. Yes there are some, but I challenge you to find me *any* part of the country that doesn't have someone with a hang up about LGBT patients.
I think we've already gone over the arguments about selecting or not selecting a LGBT provider. I know the board tries to keep things on topic (sort of), but it might help to lose the attitude. I'm gay but I didn't like your comment. It's off putting not just to people who have a problem with what you're asking, but to people who might want to help you. Unfortunately when you post on a board like this, you don't get to tell other people what their opinions should be or what they should write.
Here's a thread about a gay friendly doctor in the Brier Creek area of NW Raleigh.
I hope those resources will be helpful.
Thanks much! Also, I really wasn't insinuating ALL, or even most, medical professionals are bigots, BUT... I came from open-minded CA originally (5 years ago) and I've seen some of the absolute worst religious-based (Baptist? who knows...) anti-gay behavior than ever before in my life. It's not daily or even weekly, but it IS very apparent and regular. The last minority group is getting nailed big time here in the south. For example, I have a friend who was outed in front of a 400 person Baptist congregation, then told to leave and never come back. Yes, discrimination still really happens like that here in NC. Sad.
Again, I appreciate the links and suggestions! Take care!
I think we've already gone over the arguments about selecting or not selecting a LGBT provider. I know the board tries to keep things on topic (sort of), but it might help to lose the attitude. I'm gay but I didn't like your comment. It's off putting not just to people who have a problem with what you're asking, but to people who might want to help you. Unfortunately when you post on a board like this, you don't get to tell other people what their opinions should be or what they should write.
I for one didn't find his post laden with "attitude" at all, just a little defensive--of the sort of "pre-emptive defensiveness" from someone who has "heard it all before" and was just trying to cut it off at the bud. In fact, the last time someone started a "gay doctor" thread, the comments did in fact start to veer into that "Why are you prejudiced against straight doctors?" etc. line of "interrogation" and I imagine the OP has been confronted with this kind of thing before and was basically just saying "spare me; I'm just looking for information".
I've live in NC all my life and never really had an issue with it. I think the only thing I ever had come up was during check-in. At the time, I was on my partner's insurance and had to explain who the other girl was on the policy. It took the lady a few minutes and I had to explain "life partner", lol. She finally exclaimed "Oh!" when the lightbulb finally clicked. She then proceeded to tell me I was her first lesbian (meaning, to come into that office). I told her I was glad I was her first, then promptly took a seat. Judging about how beet red my doctor was when I went into the office, she heard as well. Other than that, never had a problem. I find people to be more "you guys should have equal rights" then "oh your life is sinful" than anything. I know this might sound horrid, but I'm not a person to protest or anything. It is what it is. I'm more approached by non-homosexuals who want to give me a earful about how gay rights are so unfair.
Good luck, I think you might be surprised at how friendly the folks are down here.
Raleigh is just opening a new GLBT Center which should have such resoucse lists. Formerly, there was a helpline under "Triangle Community Works". I can also put you on an e-list ofr GLBT events that comes out weekly, if you like.
Yes, ignore the ones who want to ***** about why one might want a doctor who understands his personal situation.
-Francois, native and Out in the local community for 30 years
I just sent you a DM, Francois. I'd like to be added to the list also. Thanks!
She then proceeded to tell me I was her first lesbian (meaning, to come into that office). I told her I was glad I was her first, then promptly took a seat.
I would really like to know if you have seen the Dr. in Cary yet and what you think about him. I'm Chuck and I'm looking for a gay friendly Dr. also.
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