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Old 07-15-2012, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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Why would anyone marry someone bitchy and stupid? Anyone stupid enough to make a choice like that deserves what they get.
Yes, the quality of the average American woman out there is stellar You are probably one of the most innocent and unaware people on this forum
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Old 07-15-2012, 05:29 PM
 
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I think 30 is still youngish. I've never felt pressure to get married or have kids, maybe never will, so it's not a "girl " thing either.

Bicoastal, do your parents know you feel obligated to do something you don't want to do because of them?
Of course not, but there's really no way around it so I'll have to just make the best out of the situation.
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Old 07-15-2012, 05:30 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It's about the choices people make.
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Old 07-15-2012, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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It's about the choices people make.
Yes, as if there are a lot of high quality women out there waiting to be chosen I am smart enough not to get involved with some sub-par, below average, good for nothing woman but a lot of these dudes on here would do anything to be with any woman.

I started a thread about the "Good men are hard to find-Myth" Youtube video but the thread was closed the same day- obviously, people don't want to hear the truth and they say we live in a "free country"

The problem with our society is: too many losers everywhere!
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Old 07-15-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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This thread is two years old and the OP obviously hasn't been back to keep us updated. So there's no sense in worrying about it. He should have already been married at 29, plus his chances probably aren't so great if he's still single. So hopefully he's found someone.

On the other hand, I guess it depends on where one lives.
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Old 07-15-2012, 10:58 PM
 
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This thread is two years old and the OP obviously hasn't been back to keep us updated. So there's no sense in worrying about it. He should have already been married at 29, plus his chances probably aren't so great if he's still single. So hopefully he's found someone.

On the other hand, I guess it depends on where one lives.

Im here..
Meeting women isnt the problem. I just feel the im not ready to marry. but when i do i wont do it with someone who is divorced or had children
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Old 07-15-2012, 11:48 PM
 
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Im here..
Meeting women isnt the problem. I just feel the im not ready to marry. but when i do i wont do it with someone who is divorced or had children
Just go onto numerous online dating sites and put it what you're looking for; I'm sure you'll find it.
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:04 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yes, as if there are a lot of high quality women out there waiting to be chosen I am smart enough not to get involved with some sub-par, below average, good for nothing woman but a lot of these dudes on here would do anything to be with any woman.

I started a thread about the "Good men are hard to find-Myth" Youtube video but the thread was closed the same day- obviously, people don't want to hear the truth and they say we live in a "free country"

The problem with our society is: too many losers everywhere!
Yep. And there are a ton of high quality men out there too

Just men who want to lie to get into your pants, treat women like crap and promise a woman the world only to disappear after a night of sex. Yeah, it's great.

Trust me, the men out there aren't all that great either...and who says you 'deserve' an above average woman? Are you above average yourself? With your attitude, probably not.
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:06 AM
 
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A person is solely responsible for their relationships and the people they choose to be with. Whining about the people in your life just makes you look like you are unable to make intelligent decisions and take responsibility for yourself.
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:08 AM
 
Location: Southern Arizona
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Yep. And there are a ton of high quality men out there too

Just men who want to lie to get into your pants, treat women like crap and promise a woman the world only to disappear after a night of sex. Yeah, it's great.

Trust me, the men out there aren't all that great either...and who says you 'deserve' an above average woman? Are you above average yourself? With your attitude, probably not.
Apparently I have to spread the love around, so I'll just say here: good post!

I was back in the dating pool for a while these past few months and hold Hell in a Handbasket It's rough out there.
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