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Old 06-24-2010, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Actually, it's not a gift. It's a loan. You'll find this out when it's time to pay back when you lose your house and everything you have earned and when you write the montlhy alimony check. just joking.
If you service your loan, you won't have a balloon payment due!
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Old 06-24-2010, 10:50 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Is sex a gift to men? Do women think sex is a gift to men? If you(the woman) enjoys the sex as much as the man does then it's just as much of a gift to you as it is to him... Unless offcourse you don't enjoy sex and only do it to please your man, in which case yes it is a gift.
Dude, you need to find another woman or at least, get more experience with women.

We all enjoy sex (men and women), there may be some who are not as into it (or you) as others, but believe me, sex is not a "gift" women give to us men.

Ive known lots of women (and married one) who wants nothing more than to have sex constantly. They dont look at is as giving me a gift or favor. They look at it as ME giving THEM something they really really want. Its fun.
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Old 06-24-2010, 11:15 PM
 
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So you are asking us the question AND giving us the answer?
Yep. Par for course.
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Old 06-25-2010, 12:53 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If you service your loan, you won't have a balloon payment due!
I sooo tried to rep ya for that.
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Old 06-25-2010, 01:09 AM
 
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Most definitely. Most of it is "given" to a small percentage of men who women want to reward for providing them with status.
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Old 06-25-2010, 04:59 AM
 
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So you are asking us the question AND giving us the answer?
I'm pointing out why women who view sex as a gift to men are wrong.
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Old 06-25-2010, 05:00 AM
 
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To borrow from someone else on another thread:

Troll, troll, troll your boat, gently down the stream...
And what makes me a troll? The only one trolling in this thread is you.
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Old 06-25-2010, 05:12 AM
 
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Ive known lots of women (and married one) who wants nothing more than to have sex constantly. They dont look at is as giving me a gift or favor. They look at it as ME giving THEM something they really really want. Its fun.
Women like that doesn't exist. After all sex is just a "gift" from women to men. They don't like it, they view it as doing the man a favor.
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Old 06-25-2010, 05:40 AM
 
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Women like that doesn't exist. After all sex is just a "gift" from women to men. They don't like it, they view it as doing the man a favor.
Well, if you have nothing to offer as a lover, and you coax women into sex by appealing either to pity or guilt, then yes, to you, sex is a gift and a favor. You don't speak for all men, though.
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Old 06-25-2010, 05:50 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Given that most men are stronger than we are and can overpower us (the primary reason for the "I'm the dominant one and that's just BIOLOGY" boasting that goes on), and women can be impregnated and abandoned, and we have to choose to whom we will give our trust in such a vulnerable situation ... yes, it is a gift in a way. I think that's what Avienne meant.

With the amount of sneering that goes on here about women who sleep with anybody, get knocked up by random men, and spread diseases, and the daily statements from other men about how women need to be choosy and have higher standards ... are you really ignorant about what that means? If a woman is being "choosy," and she selects YOU, that is a gift. She is telling you that she trusts you.
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