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Old 07-01-2010, 10:02 AM
 
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This is what lies in the heart of every self glossed nice guy.
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Old 07-01-2010, 11:05 AM
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Looks like a lot of people still don't get it. All beautiful women get are servile, groveling seminal membranes all day, everyday. When one of these gnats tries to land on a scab, she calls in the Umpa Loompas. Beautiful women look like some of the most miserable people in the world because if they crack a smile, Willi Wonka will send her the bill to roll them away. Just yesterday a woman's face honed in on me and smiled with the happy face of the homely. Everyone knows the disposition of a jolly fat girl.

Yet we are told hot women suffer from self esteem from all the male attention. I suspect the jolly, buck toothed fat girl laced with pie residue and powdered sugar esteems herself naught.

A nice confident guy might be nice, but this often requires a functional nervous system which could also be sending impulses of doubt. The cocky jerk will be different. Since women in college are surrounded by men their own age they are swamped with downy pubescents and yearlings yet to lose their fawn spots.

It is far more likely the case that she is not unusual just as the OP saw an immediate change. It is after all the exact experience I had. Being a "jerk" is little diffrent from the cold glance of "hot girl look". Once one has softened her stone face into the warm smile that recognizes real resistance, nice may follow contextually but not as a quid pro quo for pity sex.
dude...what?


did willy wonka sprinkle some crack on your cereal this morning?
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Old 07-01-2010, 11:10 AM
 
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dude...what?


did willy wonka sprinkle some crack on your cereal this morning?

Dude, think of me as another beautiful woman only apply my haughty disdain to cliches`.
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Old 07-03-2010, 12:49 PM
 
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cdubs,

You treated that girl the way that you have been treated in the past. You were careless with her feelings. To me that does not sound like the way to treat someone. She is not the problem. She did not cause you to give up on relationships. She is just an innocent that you took your bad experiences with women out on. It is sad that she found you interesting at all, if you treated her as badly as you say. I am 25, and I would have told you off.
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Speak for yourself. Some chicks dig it, but not this one. Those types of "men" (I use that term loosely) never got very far with me.




That's the first thing that would come to mind and I'd question why my male buddies were hanging with such a D-bag.
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Yep, that is it. All of the women on CD are jealous that you found a way to get some. Like we have to even look for it. If all we wanted was sex, we could have it everyday with a different guy. Women don't have to look for sex. We do, however, have to look for decent men who don't use people just to get some. I wouldn't touch a guy that would do that with a ten foot pole, so have fun but don't imagine that we are jealous.
Q: What do ALL women have in common?

A: They are ALL so freaking ATYPICAL
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Old 07-03-2010, 08:56 PM
 
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Ok. It's one thing to not want to go out with someone. That's your right, no big deal. But was it really necessary to humiliate her in front of people? Or did it just make you feel good inside?

Oh, give me a break. The man was speaking truth obviously, and the girl knew it. I love it when people are not politically correct like the masses have been trained to be by their masters.
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Old 07-03-2010, 08:59 PM
 
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IT DOES NOT MATTER IF A GUY IS A JERK OR NICE.

All that matters to most women is if they think the man is above their league socially and financially. If the man is, they will throw themselves at them when the chance arises.
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Old 07-03-2010, 09:08 PM
 
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IT DOES NOT MATTER IF A GUY IS A JERK OR NICE.

All that matters to most women is if they think the man is above their league socially and financially. If the man is, they will throw themselves at them when the chance arises.
I'm a big ballin pimp and nobody's throwing themselves at me.

The couple of gay guys don't count.
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