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Old 06-29-2010, 08:23 PM
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I had a first convo two nights ago with a pretty women from the dating site and once I made the call I talked about the weather and TV shows for the first 10mins. To kind of break the ice and it seemed like things were going well because we talked about the hot weather, the tv show the Office and then all of a sudden she said-"well let me get ready to go"


HUH??? Should I start talking about why she is single, relationships and sex as soon as I call her??? I so confused and don't know what else. 10 mins is not enough time to judge my conversation skills.

Am I not supposed to break the ICE????

 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:25 PM
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dont talk about the weather dood. thats what people talk about with strangers when they are trying to fill up dead air
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:28 PM
 
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Omg Solomon. She might of got nervous. Maybe you got her so excited she had to poop. Maybe her male order husband came in the door. And jokes aside when I was younger I could sit and talk to boys for hours. Now i got shyt to do.
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:32 PM
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dont talk about the weather dood. thats what people talk about with strangers when they are trying to fill up dead air
In the first 5 to 10 mins, what should be talking about?
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:44 PM
 
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In the first 5 to 10 mins, what should be talking about?
Things that are similar to both of you? Talk about things that happened to you that day. Ask questions what are her likes dislikes. Gawd you sure you have dated before?
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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In the first 5 to 10 mins, what should be talking about?
People love to talk about themselves, given the chance.
Ask what HER interests are, arts, sports, things like that....stay away from politics though!
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:46 PM
 
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People love to talk about themselves, given the chance.
Ask what HER interests are, arts, sports, things like that....stay away from politics though!
Very true unless you are on the same side.
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:48 PM
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Things that are similar to both of you? Talk about things that happened to you that day. Ask questions what are her likes dislikes. Gawd you sure you have dated before?

Well we were talking about the Office and we both like the show. I wasn't going to stay on the show for a hour


I just sent her a text saying-"hey this is big Sol, what's going on?


LL
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:49 PM
 
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Very true unless you are on the same side.
Yes, but I have always felt that didnt need to be addressed right away, you know?
My SO and I are polar opposites politically, we just agreed not to talk about stuff like that. It may not work for everyone, but it works for us.
 
Old 06-29-2010, 08:50 PM
 
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Well we were talking about the Office and we both like the show. I wasn't going to stay on the show for a hour


I just sent her a text saying-"hey this is big Sol, what's going on?


LL
Aahahaha.......and did she send one back saying "Who?" j/k I still think she may be just shy.
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