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Old 07-07-2010, 03:21 AM
 
Location: NH
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Originally Posted by Violett View Post
As creepy as these stories are, these people are not really stalkers.

Stalkers are people who bang on your door, screaming that you let them in so they can talk to you so loud that your neighbors eventually call the cops. They get your name tattooed on them and show up to your work. When asked to leave your work, they hang outside in the parking lot FOR HOURS waiting for you to get off EVERY SINGLE DAY for weeks.

I know, because I was stalked before.
Correct. I am thinking the female in question is very lonely and probably a bit desperate IF in fact she is "checking up" on the OP. However that does not constitute a stalker.

Maybe she's a hopeless romantic who had those hopeless dreams of making something happen with those private messages, put herself out there and is now weirded out by the fact the OP just dropped out of site (pun, get it?)
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Old 07-07-2010, 04:19 AM
 
Location: Canada
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I wouldn't consider her a stalker. You are flattering yourself
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:00 AM
 
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Are you 15? That isn't a stalker BTW.

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so i exchanged a few messages on match with this chick, then i got kinda busy and forgot about her and the site. so like 2 weeks later i log back in and i have tons of msgs from her. figuring it would be weird to respond at that point, plus i was kinda creeped out she sent me 5 msgs, i didnt reply.

for a few months, once a week every single week, she would check out my profile. i eventually deactivated cuz online dating sux, but i still have an okc profile up for fun. well a week after match deactivated she made an OKC profile and found me on there. for the past couple months, once a week every week, she has checked out my profile.

i think this has been going on since october and she hasnt missed a week!
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:01 AM
 
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Exactly. lol.

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I wouldn't consider her a stalker. You are flattering yourself
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:13 AM
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And to think all this time I thought you were a chick!
whhhhhhhat??
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Old 07-07-2010, 06:18 AM
 
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Really? I have one here on C-D. I disagreed with him. Now he makes up a new screen names, trolls the boards, and sends hate messages via DM.

What can you do? There are losers everywhere.
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Old 07-07-2010, 06:53 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Are you talking about me? If you are, I have never sended you any messages via DM, The first two things is right on though.

You're Aviennes stalker LOL
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Old 07-07-2010, 06:58 AM
 
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Are you talking about me? If you are, I have never sended you any messages via DM, The first two things is right on though.
No, Fox, I'm not talking about you.
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Old 07-07-2010, 07:04 AM
 
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No, it's just that the first two things she said is accurate, so I thought she was talking about me but I have never sended any messages to her, nor have I stalked her
I was just kidding hence the LOL
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Old 07-07-2010, 07:44 AM
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Yep the stalker

And maybe 12 years old considering the spelling--by the way OP there is spell check
spell check is for sissies
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