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Old 07-07-2010, 10:07 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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so i exchanged a few messages on match with this chick, then i got kinda busy and forgot about her and the site. so like 2 weeks later i log back in and i have tons of msgs from her. figuring it would be weird to respond at that point, plus i was kinda creeped out she sent me 5 msgs, i didnt reply.

for a few months, once a week every single week, she would check out my profile. i eventually deactivated cuz online dating sux, but i still have an okc profile up for fun. well a week after match deactivated she made an OKC profile and found me on there. for the past couple months, once a week every week, she has checked out my profile.

i think this has been going on since october and she hasnt missed a week!

She loves you man! Why can't you just acknowledge her love for you? I mean, what's wrong? Are you mad? Have you seen the messages? What do you think? Can't she just look at your lovely face? And wonder what it would be like to hold you? Walk down the aisle with you? Have your baby? Then you could take the kids to the park. Go to your parents for cookouts. Buy matching t-shirts.........
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Old 07-07-2010, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Florida
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She loves you man! Why can't you just acknowledge her love for you? I mean, what's wrong? Are you mad? Have you seen the messages? What do you think? Can't she just look at your lovely face? And wonder what it would be like to hold you? Walk down the aisle with you? Have your baby? Then you could take the kids to the park. Go to your parents for cookouts. Buy matching t-shirts.........
Exactly!!!

IMO, internet dating sites & especially getting rejected on these sites should not be taken personally. Just as not being attracted to people face to face occurs, so it follows that it occurs in cyper space as well...our society is so screwed up by our instantaneous ability to send/receive information!!! I wonder if there's been sub-specialties of psychiatrists getting in on this yet?
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Old 07-07-2010, 10:26 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Can you blame the woman? She is probably so insecure now that she has become paranoid.

Yes I can blame her. She's been insecure way before me. She is mad because her husband told her I was beautiful, she told him I was some fat sloppy chick...she is crazy I tell you
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Old 07-07-2010, 10:48 AM
 
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that strikes me as being a bit odd since it was just a few emails and i never met her. but then again it is the internet
I wouldn't call it cyberstalking yet since you haven't turned her away and said to get lost, rather you have just ignored her.

Anytime you put a "profile" out in public on the internet you invite people to look at it as much as they want.

I'd say if you are concerned about being tracked down, I'd take the profiles down and IRC like on match you can block people.
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Old 07-07-2010, 10:58 AM
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i dont really care if she looks at it

i just find the behavior odd
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Old 07-07-2010, 11:05 AM
 
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And to think all this time I thought you were a chick!
A lesbian chick can write a similar post.
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Old 07-07-2010, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Pa
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so i exchanged a few messages on match with this chick, then i got kinda busy and forgot about her and the site. so like 2 weeks later i log back in and i have tons of msgs from her. figuring it would be weird to respond at that point, plus i was kinda creeped out she sent me 5 msgs, i didnt reply.

for a few months, once a week every single week, she would check out my profile. i eventually deactivated cuz online dating sux, but i still have an okc profile up for fun. well a week after match deactivated she made an OKC profile and found me on there. for the past couple months, once a week every week, she has checked out my profile.

i think this has been going on since october and she hasnt missed a week!
Who doesn't want the Ep man. Stop being so cool.
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Old 07-07-2010, 11:11 AM
 
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Congrats! Hey, others whine nobody cares for their profiles...
And then there are some, like me, who have no idea whats on their profile.

Uh oh, I hope this doesn't mean someone is going to stalk me.
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Old 07-07-2010, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Where we enjoy all four seasons
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Really? I have one here on C-D. I disagreed with him. Now he makes up a new screen names, trolls the boards, and sends hate messages via DM.

What can you do? There are losers everywhere.
I have had one of these for a couple of years now and it got so bad the DA's office had to get involved. Some people are just psycho. This person "seemed" so very normal.
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Old 07-07-2010, 11:16 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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And then there are some, like me, who have no idea whats on their profile.

Uh oh, I hope this doesn't mean someone is going to stalk me.

Well, thebobs, I check your profile like 3 times a day and I know you are a funny guy with a great sense of humor and you really, really seem to like to have a good time. I hope you would like to have a good time with me. We can to out together, I'll pay if you want. We can eat steak or grits, whichever you want. I like grits myself but it's ok...whatever you want is what we will do. I don't have a curfew so we can stay out as long as you want. Do you like me? Why haven't you emailed me back? Have you been busy? I know you have a lot to do but it would be nice to hear from you. Ok?....Ok?....OKAAAAY!!
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