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Old 07-10-2010, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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So this girl I've been seeing for the past month or so We've gotten really close almost from day 1. She and I were supposed to meet up this morning to play tennis. I was supposed to get up at 9 am and call her. I set my alarm on my phone but for whatever reason I didnt wake up till noon. I called her to apologize, no answer, texted her, no reply, sent her a message on facebook, no reply, called one more time, and oh....you guessed it...no reply

I really like her and Im probably worrying too much but Im worried she has cut me off permanently and doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. This is the first time something like this happened

Ladies what would your reaction be if a guy did something (unintentionally) in a similar situation?
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Simmering in DFW
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Gee, if everything was good up to now, by 9:20 I would have called the guy to make sure he wasn't oversleeping or didn't have a heart attack during the night. Are you sure she's ok?
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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I dont know if she's ok. My assumption is she doesnt want to talk to me anymore
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:29 PM
 
Location: florida
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aww dont worry wait and see if she calls you back maybe your not the only one who forgot i guess you just have to be patient but since she has not called since then maybe something wrong its not been very long so she may call you back depends how long it has been
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:29 PM
 
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So this girl I've been seeing for the past month or so We've gotten really close almost from day 1. She and I were supposed to meet up this morning to play tennis. I was supposed to get up at 9 am and call her. I set my alarm on my phone but for whatever reason I didnt wake up till noon. I called her to apologize, no answer, texted her, no reply, sent her a message on facebook, no reply, called one more time, and oh....you guessed it...no reply

I really like her and Im probably worrying too much but Im worried she has cut me off permanently and doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. This is the first time something like this happened

Ladies what would your reaction be if a guy did something (unintentionally) in a similar situation?
That was a legitimate accident and could happen to anybody, especially on a weekend. She shouldn't get too mad at you. If she does just take her out for dinner or something!LOL..... Guy to guy talk here!
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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It does sound like she's probably mad. I'm assuming you tried to explain what happened in your messages to her so if she can't accept a simple mistake like sleeping in it would make me think she's overreacting if nothing like this has happened before. Good luck.
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:34 PM
 
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Don't send anymore messages. If she's mad let her get over it.

That is pretty rude, whether it was over sleeping or not. You better have a nice, heart felt apology ready.
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:39 PM
 
Location: NH
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LOL you forgot to call her, big freakin' deal!

Apologize to her. If she accepts, fine. If she doesn't then you don't need her anyway.

For someone to get hung up over a phone call is a pretty trival thing in the grande scheme.
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:39 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Were you supposed to just call her at 9am or meet her at the tennis courts?
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:44 PM
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if she showed up to play i could see why she might be pissed
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