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Old 01-12-2010, 01:05 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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What if he wanted to continue to be with guys (as well as be with you).




-Steve
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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say what??lol

is this a joke..is what I would say!
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:08 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Well after that....
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:10 PM
 
Location: California
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! There's already enough competition out there with woman, I'm not about to date a man who wants to be with both sexes! Honestly it would just bother the hell out of me. I personally couldn't do it!
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:14 PM
 
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I'd say 'OH why not! Why the HELL NOT!' (throws hands in the air)
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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I would be ready to sign them papers........papers!
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Old 01-12-2010, 01:53 PM
 
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I'd be devastated and the relationship most likely would end.

It's possible it MIGHT become a friendship at a later point but we would not be romantically or sexually involved.

That's not to say that I take issue with people who are bisexual either, as I don't, but I am not bisexual and consider myself a monogamous heterosexual so a bisexual partner is not the person for me. I would never knowingly become involved with someone who is bisexual in a physical way and discovering it after the fact would put a tremendous strain on the relationship as far as I'm concerned.
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Old 01-12-2010, 02:06 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Default Default Ladies, How would you react if your Husband/BF told you he was Bisexual?

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What if he wanted to continue to be with guys (as well as be with you).




-Steve
What a no brainer.

Of course I would end the relationship immediately. I would consider him "being with guys" as cheating on me, just as if he were to spend time being sexual with other women. I expect and demand that my relationships be monogamous.
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Old 01-12-2010, 02:07 PM
 
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I think this information should be told to someone in the very beginning of their relationship.

I would be upset/hurt if I found out after we were married, or had been seeing each other for a while. This is usually something I ask upfront, and I would probably have more issues with the fact that they lied to me.

I would have no problem having a fling with someone who is bisexual, but for a serious relationship I want someone who is straight/monogamous...
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Old 01-12-2010, 02:15 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No way, no how. That is something that I simply couldn't abide.

If he was hanging out in the gay culture/club scene to meet men, that lifestyle is notoriously promiscuous. I'd be deathly afraid of him contracting AIDS and passing it along to me.
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