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Just curious, how many of you have had purely sexual relationships in the past? Any women that were able to maintain this without getting emotionally involved? The kind of relationship that is understood by both parties that it is ONLY sexual and there are no strings attached. Moreover, did you know that the other person was sleeping with others but you were able to "deal" with that?
How long did it last?
How did it start?
Do you still think about this person?
Was it hard to keep it sexual and did you feel yourself falling for this person?
**Please, no married people that are currently having sexual relationships with other people. - This is not that kind of thread.**
I know someone who does this. I won't say she is my friend because she is not, but unfortunately I see her more than I care too. And she is always talking about sex. She knows a guy that is married. The couple calls her over randomly for a threesome, and then she leaves. It has been going on for years. She has never spoken about these people in any other respect than their sexual encounters. So I guess she has no emotional connection to them, because I would think she would at least talk about their kids or something, but no. Very disgusting in my opinion, and one of the reasons I don't talk to her.
Just curious, how many of you have had purely sexual relationships in the past? Any women that were able to maintain this without getting emotionally involved? The kind of relationship that is understood by both parties that it is ONLY sexual and there are no strings attached. Moreover, did you know that the other person was sleeping with others but you were able to "deal" with that?
To my knowledge she wasn't sleeping with others. I was, and yes, she knew it and was okay with it.
How long did it last? A year or two.
How did it start? She suggested it.
Do you still think about this person? Not unless you ask about it.
Was it hard to keep it sexual and did you feel yourself falling for this person? Of course, it HAD to be hard to keep it sexual, and no.
**Please, no married people that are currently having sexual relationships with other people. - This is not that kind of thread.**
Funny you should put this in your post. What you're describing is sport sex (technically know as Sport F****** in the winter Olympics) and there are many married people who are in bad and good relationships that indulge in sport sex inside a marriage and outside their marriage. Probably more then single people in or out of relationships.
Some people even consider it a tag team event. Tag, it's your turn.
Just curious, how many of you have had purely sexual relationships in the past? Any women that were able to maintain this without getting emotionally involved?
I have, several times. I am a woman and yes, I was able to not get emotionally attached. As a matter of fact, most of the GUYS got emotional attached, which is why those relationships ended.
Moreover, did you know that the other person was sleeping with others but you were able to "deal" with that?
The guy I'm having this kind of a 'relationship' with right now is sleeping with others, and I couldn't care less. We use protection.
How long did it last?
Usually a few months or until one of us got into a relationship.
How did it start?
The most recent one started after a night of drinking. We're friends. Come to think of it - it always starts with friendship in my case.
Do you still think about this person?
Sure, we're friends
Was it hard to keep it sexual and did you feel yourself falling for this person?
It's not hard at all to keep it sexual. He's amazing in bed. And I'm not worried about falling for him at all.
Never. How could I do that? Having no feelings for a guy doesn't make me want to touch his body or have him touch mine. And I think people who say they can are kidding themselves or just naturally skanky.
Never. How could I do that? Having no feelings for a guy doesn't make me want to touch his body or have him touch mine. And I think people who say they can are kidding themselves or just naturally skanky.
Aaaaaand, there's the requisite judgmental comments. FYI different people are capable of having different types of relationships other than your boringly typical vanilla christian missionary position only sex.
It doesn't make them "skanky" just because they don't subscribe to your mindset on the matter. As long as everyone is consenting, everyone is an adult, and everyone has safe sex, it doesn't matter. Sex is good for a person's mental health, and it's fun, and a person can think that way without being overly promiscuous or having unsafe sex.
How long did it last? one night
How did it start? with a couple of drinks
Do you still think about this person? hell no!!!
Was it hard to keep it sexual and did you feel yourself falling for this person? not at all
**Please, no married people that are currently having sexual relationships with other people. - This is not that kind of thread.**
Just curious, how many of you have had purely sexual relationships in the past? Any women that were able to maintain this without getting emotionally involved? The kind of relationship that is understood by both parties that it is ONLY sexual and there are no strings attached. Moreover, did you know that the other person was sleeping with others but you were able to "deal" with that?
How long did it last?
How did it start?
Do you still think about this person?
Was it hard to keep it sexual and did you feel yourself falling for this person?
**Please, no married people that are currently having sexual relationships with other people. - This is not that kind of thread.**
I only had one relationship/thing/whatever that was sort of like this, but it didn't involve sex. We were make-out buddies. Actually, I've had several make-out buddies through the years, but the one I'm thinking of now was special because I couldn't remember his name throughout most of it lol. I don't know if we ever formally introduced ourselves. We met at a rave and ended up all over each other, which is pretty typical for those kinds of events. The next time I saw him at a club we started dancing together and yep, made-out. From then on when ever we'd run into each other it would result in an embrace. We didn't talk at all. We'd see each other, our eyes would light up, and off we'd go. The last time that I recall we were in the stairs of a parking garage. He and his group of friends were going down and my friends and I were going up. We saw each other and locked lips lol, just as we have always come to do. One of his buddies said "c'mon Darren, we're late". Another friend said "leave them be for a minute, they haven't seen each other in months". lol It was pretty funny and I remember him fondly. He was a beautiful young man.
Never. How could I do that? Having no feelings for a guy doesn't make me want to touch his body or have him touch mine. And I think people who say they can are kidding themselves or just naturally skanky.
Ladies, you knew this point of view would come. Wait for the pruddish men to chime in.
btw: If anyone is experiencing a "jump off" or "cas sex", then you don't give a damn what people think of you anyway.
Society said, this and that. Yeah right!
Do you!!
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